This book is called "First Kill all the Marriage Counselors" by Laura Doyle This book has helped me so much I just want to tell everyone about it. I believe that anyone can benefit from reading or listening to the audio book. The author interviewed multiple women with successful marriages and took their common advice and developed a sort or guide book for how we as wives should compose ourselves in marriage so that we feel loved and our husbands feel respected. I didn't realize how much I was dragging our marriage down until I reflected and started trying out some of the habits and phrases she recommends using. I think her book is such a good balance of the woman practicing self care and honoring her needs but also creating an environment of respect for her husband. I am so glad I found this book and I can already see my relationship improving. The book was so good for me that I just want to tell everyone about it. I listened to the audiobook while doing chores. Soo convenient!