My husband lost a lot of weight .He worked out and I helped him with his diet.His health improved a lot and he felt good. One of my cousin brother always comments on his weight as a joke telling he is out of shape.At that time my husband was having a lot of belly fat and though it hurt ,I took it as a motivation to help him lose weight. After he lost 30 pounds when the cousin met him, he commented “he still does not look fit.Why is your husband losing weight without any target? He needs to try and be better and have a proper goal”.. I got triggered and said”Hello! He lost so much weight and that is commendable enough”. Now due to job stress he gained 10 pounds and put on some belly fat and is in the process of weight loss again. When that cousin met us last weekend..he commented “Tell your husband that he is out of shape”.. I was so bloody annoyed but my hubby is a cool guy and told me to let it go. I just cannot understand some people.Why do they have to comment on someone’s weight casually?? Even if they are trying to help..I feel people can keep comments and opinions to themselves unless they are close or tell it in a constructive and helpful manner alone. I will help my hubby again but the problem is..humans will gain or lose weight.It is natural!! Today we will lose some and tomorrow we grow older things might change. Some things I feel like commenting on other’s bodies or the way they live,or what they do,marital status or why they don’t have kids etc..some people should really really refrain from commenting and keep their opinions to themselves. Also I remember in the past everytime I go to my aunt’s home..she will touch my belly and said”you have put on weight here”.. seriously!!! Every single time!! Some things I seriously feel people should refrain their comments are…. 1) body weight 2) Marital status 3) what they do in their life 4) Why they don’t have kids 5) Salary People are judgemental it is the way it is but atleast it would be better if they don’t tell it bluntly on others face unless they are close to them or they are their well wishers.It is so uncool.