She can stop doing things voluntarily..thaney iluthu potu seyraatha, apo no one can come and ask why you didn't do. Even if they do ask, she can ask the same question to them..why didn't you do it ? if she is accused or questioned, ava theliva thirupi keeka kudiyava than! IF someone asks for help particularly, she can do if willing. apo she can always say I am helping that so and so person.