U have put forward everything I wanted to tell but couldn't either because I forgot the sequence of incidents or because I can't explain well. That Samyuktha incident is where I understood his disrespect towards women- I dislike Samyukta too but that court task week he was agitated with her basically because she won the captaincy with Balaji's help and overall his mood was bad due to that. He was more offended than Som who lost the task. When Ramya started talking against him some day he shouted and asked her to not point her hands towards him and talk!! She was not pointing at him in first place; its a body language which comes to anybody while explaining things but Ari got annoyed by this and Ramya immediately apologized which in my eyes is a great gesture which I am sure I wouldn't do in between an argument!! And yes, when your criticised always for everything you do you may not feel like bonding with that person no matter what. Anything done with good intentions also judged by him ; its not easy to live so and hence people stay away