Sandhya, I am a jealous wife true. Which wife will not feel jealous when the husband pays extra attention to anyone else but the wife? Won't it feel bad when the person you love thinks you are a pain, but is very appreciative and nice to all other females? But I never suspected him so far. Only after I saw his super intimate text message (only one message) that the suspicion started - his reaction to it was even more suspicious. He behaved like someone who is caught when they are stealing something. At that point, I too thought he slipped up in a moment of ecstasy. But then the female out there also is responding - she is going carpool with him (I have no doubts on that), because I actually saw him take a different route from the office( not towards the office at all), when I asked he said it's not my business. Why build suspense here? Something's brewing, but what is it? Is it gone too far? That's what I wonder. Should I trust him anymore? I don't want to break my marriage - definitely not, but his behavior is only fueling my suspicion. For almost a month I stopped eating properly - not deliberately it is the first time in life, I did not feel like eating or even get proper sleep. Finally, I felt confronting him with evidence - even if I get something will do no good, probably he won't even feel the guilt that he is feeling now. He would happily break it off, and that means I am at a loss again. All this made me want to strongly work in the positive direction rather than away from him. Still somewhere in the corner of my heart, it feels very painful that I could not make him happy, made him so desperate as to seek outside help. I know for sure something is there, but not exactly what. Even if it is plain emotional it is still hurting me. Why post this thread? Because it helps when I talk about it, I feel better. Slowly, I am going to let go of it, but I hope with time, he also stops this behavior and it does not take a worse turn.