Hi I just needed some advise . I was married 2 months on the 23 May 2007. I am Musliim and he is Hindu . To add on that pressure his mother is driving us crazy . They wanted us to live with them which I could not do as I am an independent woman and well I have been living on my own for the last 7 years paying rent and paying of rmy own car etc being self sufficient .His mother cant come to terms that we are living on our own.Everytime we visit her she is totally sarcastic and this is working on my last nerve . I have never been rude or sarcastic to her even though she goes crazy with the sarcastic remarks like she will adopt another son to take care of HER and massage her feet etc. She has a 27 yr old daughter who still lives at home as she is not married. She has my fatherinlaw why is she so hell bent on making myself and her son feel bad because we chose to move on our own to start our lives .We assuired her hat we will be ther for them when they need us we visit them as well . What could possibly be motivating her to be so bitter .I thought parents roles are to make sure they bring up their children to be independant and strong so that when they do venture out to get married and start their own families they are well prepared, but I guess I was totally off the mark when I see her behaviour . She looks really upset if her son shows me affection etc what is wrong with her? IS SHE INLOVE WITH HER SON ? I have told him that he can go back home as it was not my intention to make her or him unhappy . He is caught in the middle trying to keep us both happy but he and i argue all the time . It has come to a point where I dont even want to visit her anymore . I dread every moment that i am there when we visit . WHAT CAN IDO TO MAKE THINGS BETTER even though I have done nothing wrong and how can i stop the fighting with my husband PLEASE HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!