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baby saanvi found dead in the same apartment ..in the basement

Discussion in 'General Discussions - USA & Canada' started by amicabledeepu, Oct 27, 2012.

  1. sokanasanah

    sokanasanah IL Hall of Fame

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    True.
    All I was trying to point out was that just because he wanted his wife to get the reward money, it does not follow that she was involved as well.
     
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    true, i too don't think his wife had any knowledge about it, but i have to also think about this guy's attitude of money at that hour also. i am sure the wife would have been humiliated on hearing his statement, by bringing his wife into the scenario. if a person is really remorse, his first act of repentance should be to the family who has lost two lives in their life forever, then comes his family. at the moment his wife and his family would prefer to be as distant as possible from this guy's life.
     
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    I agree with what you say above. But what you have written --that is how we (normal people) would think and feel in such a situation. This guy just killed 2 people in the most unimaginable and insane manner possble so I would think he is far from normal, right? There is nothing normal abouut this guy, he seems to be a psycho.
     
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    In moments of extreme stress, people often dissociate and do it in different ways.
    Maybe he is not yet ready / able to face his own dark side.
     
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    You know, in some ways, a psychopath may be easier to forgive .... maybe something is really, clinically wrong with them, right from the get-go.
    On the other hand a 'normal' person who is blessed with empathic faculties, who fails so spectacularly to find those inner resources .... much harder to understand.
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Looks like there are two threads on the topic. Quoting my post from the other thread... if there are any parents here wtih grandparents taking care of babies/toddlers, reading details might help to reassure grandparents adn also take necessary precautions.....

     
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    When he left the suitcase there... and the cops came dont they get those sniff dogs like in india to find out here in US ??? It would have led them isint ?

    I wish something like that had happened and they found her right then... Its terribly disturbing.
     
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    This story has broken my heart into several pieces. I am actually tearing up a little bit after looking at baby Saanvi's angelic face.... May she rest in peace... I cannot even imagine what her parents must be feeling right now! Nobody, I mean NOBODY should have to go through something like this... whats happening? This is the fourth story of children being killed in the last two days. Nanny kills two children in her care, teen kills a ten year old, two teenaged brothers kill a twelve year old for her bicycle parts (?!)..ENOUGH! It's making me very, very scared of being a parent in this world.... Children are so precious, God i hope you're listening, please protect them!
     
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    Exactly my thoughts Dr I did see the sniffer dogs in few clips. Also if the baby's body with all the blood was hidden in the gym why didn't any one observe. In apartment gyms personal properties are not kept. Also since the baby was no more on Monday did it not smell even after 5days? Or people did not use the gym anymore? There is more to this case
     
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    so sorry for the poor parents.............
     

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