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baby saanvi found dead in the same apartment ..in the basement

Discussion in 'General Discussions - USA & Canada' started by amicabledeepu, Oct 27, 2012.

  1. sokanasanah

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    Now I understand. This post on IL is the first I heard of the story. Absolutely horrifying.
     
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    This fellow's wife did no wrong. So please delete info about her & her family. I know it will all come out in some tabloid paper or another, but you don't want to be one among those who hurt this poor woman right? No matter how tangentially? She is probably stunned right now. Why add to the horror?
    And besides, until the evidence becomes clear, as distant third parties, we owe the accused the benefit of the doubt as well.
     
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    Are you serious? Where did you read that?

    Today's a really bad for parents in general. First that nanny stabbing the kids case in NY and now this. Really makes all parents everywhere think twice about care providers.
     
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    yeah. It gets worse. Apparently baby wouldnt stop screaming so he put the hanky over her mouth...

    <no words>
     
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    You are right... removed those details..
    (but all these details are from publicly available source online..)
     
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    Thanks! I knew you would.
    Yes, I know of course, but why should we be a part of that? If we had a choice we would want to console her as well, right? Not make her feel worse ...
     
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    Who knows? Perhaps the lady has some part in this. They were newly married and this guy wants the money be given to his pregnant wife.
     
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    Exactly! We don't know.
    Benefit of doubt, until we know otherwise. It's as much about who we want to be as who he / they might be.

    The simple explanation for this could be that he had a brief glimpse of what his actions had done to her .... his way for 'making amends', saying sorry to his wife?
     
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    still it is blood stained, no amount of regretting or amending is going to bring back the deads or the sorrow and suffering of the affected family. Also i think his wife would not accept his remorse, all she would feel is the sickening feeling of having married such a sinner and to currently bearing his child.
     

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