Hi ILites! I am male but have been living with my in laws for almost 3 years now (there were reasons for it). There are certain things in the house which I'd prefer to change or renovate. I keep my salary to myself and don't contribute financially except for groceries and other small stuff. Is it okay for me to ask for these changes in the house? The thing is that they involve some amount of construction and i might be moving out in a year or two so I don't want to pay for it. Hope to get some good suggestions.