Arranged marriage difficulties due to Inter-caste marriage of parents

No Idea how they take it depends truly per their personalities.

But Congratulations for your marriage.

 

If you told your partner and that person chose not to tell, then how should it matter. Because it is an arranged marriage, you should disclose as many details as possible before marriage. It is not at all a good idea to hide anything before marriage. It is not about whether caste is relevant anymore today or not or whether horoscopes are genuine or not, it is about honesty and transparency. It may not matter to you, it may matter to the other party. It is fine as long as you don't take it as a reason for all your future issues. Don't ever say that because of caste issue, you are having problems in your marriage. Just like you chose to hide some details, your partner would have hidden some details - do you like that? Please act responsibly and don't bail out of the marriage in future because of any issue major or minor. Caste may be irrelevant to you and for your partner something else may be irrelevant, something that would have greatly mattered to you. It is not a good idea to lie because you think the proposal is a good one and you cannot let go of the opportunity. Marriage is lifetime commitment and you should know that.

 

I come from a background of intercaste married parents. When we gave the profile and went on groom searching, mentioned the same, and chose to search only from intercaste grooms. There were so many choices too. My H too is from the same background. It is better to reveal such things, but as you have moved on, just let it be under the veil.