Hi ladies, Am I asking a silly question? You might say that it is natural for any woman to be possesive of her husband. I am not talking about husbands flirting with other women. There are women who think that the husband belongs to them only. Even if they spend time with friends are talk to the parents for a long time they feel jealous. If they buy gifts or give money to their siblings they could not tolerate it. They have the mentality, "En purushan than enkku mattum than." From the time I got married my hubby never used to stay at home after he returned from office. He was a socialising person. He was a member of Tamil Sangam and so when ever there was a function he was the first person to go and make arrangements like spreading the carpet and putting the benches etc, and the last to leave. If any one died he and his friends were called for help. He used to do small rolls in dramas that were staged during Ramanavami festival. The day the drama was to be staged I had a miscarriage, but he had to go. Another time the drama troup participated in a national competition at Allahabad.and I was laid with high fever, but he had to go. They won the first or second prize also. Even now he is involved in local temple administration. If he takes any responsibility , he will give his life and soul. But he never shirked his responsibility to his family also. But when any one asked him at what standard his son or daughter was studying, he had to ask us. But I love himwith all his short comings that I will write another time. I am proud of him.