Re: Are you proud to be a woman. Hi Karthika, Thanks for your caring statements. I am just getting frustrated when I have to accept something which my mind is not accepting, that is only because of I am an women. As years passby, we are getting more freedom like men. But still, when a women works @ office, cooking @ home, cleaning, taking care of kid, etc etc when man just doing the office work and remaining time, browsing the internet. I feel as if they are utilizing us. Atleast since I am USA, I am getting some privacy, cooking what I wanted, going whereever I want to go etc. Think about the women who are living in India with ILs. OOkkk... Without husband's permission we cannot even work. I was working before marriage, after marriage, my husbands expects me to take care of our baby and house. Hmm... He says so soft so couldn't say anything and always my parents chanting "do what SIL says, don't do anything against his words". What to do? I can ask my MIL to come overhear to take care of my kid, but, I will loose my privacy which I don't want. If I go to India trip, as everyone faces, I could't spend with my parents:bangcomp: so, when I couldn't do what I wanted only because I am a women, I am hating. Otherthan that, I am enjoying fullday with my kid. I just not feeling proud to be a women.