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Are men scared of smarter women??

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Dinny, Feb 16, 2013.

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  1. sarajara

    sarajara Gold IL'ite

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    To simply answer the topic..

    men are not scared of smarter women.. they are scared only if they are likely to snatch away the limelight of the guy thats it!:)

    Men do not care if their better halfs are way smarter.. but they want the whole pic with them on the throne - i am sorry if this provokes a lot of replies.. but what i mean here is that men do not want some one else looking more important in the eyes of some one outside the family.

    I feel that its not wrong.. its the way the social setup is..
     
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  2. Dinny

    Dinny IL Hall of Fame

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    True thats the way our society wants it to be.I dont blame all the men but then most of the decisions in our society are taken by the men right?? Like the family's head usually a man decides the rules of a family..the politicians who are mostly men decide how to run the country and society.So finally men have never allowed women to rise above them.
     
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    Dinny IL Hall of Fame

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    Well SKMK my guess is if smart women dont marry men then its because smart women dont need men in their lives right??

    what say Nandita??
     
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    Eraser Silver IL'ite

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    Women who think they are smarter, try to dominate every situation to extent that their smartness becomes obvious - Men (or even fellow ladies) will reject such upfront ++smartness seeing it as mere ego.

    Women who are smart will align with the situation and play subtly - This goes unnoticed but outcome will be liked.
     
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    SKMK New IL'ite

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    HELLO frnd

    . if a woman is smart, that means she may not marry. i agree.

    but that does not mean a smart woman will not need a man in life(unless she is fearful of a man)
    see marriage is a life long commitment and it may need some tough commitments frm both man and woman

    so a smart woman will concentrate more on her self than marry and have family and divide her concentration. if u c in usa, many woman are work oriented and are called smart. but they dont marry for long duration but maintain reln with men.

    so smart women put themselves first and chance of avoid mrg. but definitely not miss the fun in life. if they miss, they are not smart
     
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    Eraser Silver IL'ite

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    I don't understand; Can we interpret it as "all married women are not smart (=Dumb?) or extending it, those women who stay in marriage are dumb and they get smarter to divorce?"

    If yes, please clarify.

     
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    SKMK New IL'ite

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    hello frnd,

    u r mistaken in ur interpretation. i said about smart women not chose to marry. becoz they may have their reasons.
    what is this connection with married women? what do u want to ask
     
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    ashyprynia Bronze IL'ite

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    well said dear and its true ! :cheers
     
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  9. Dinny

    Dinny IL Hall of Fame

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    "Smart one" Eraser!!
    Yes those women who dont hurt a man's bloated ego are actually smart
     
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    Heyyy! i like smarter women... :banana ....then i dont have to think / do anything.......:banana teasing smart women is fun.they have a retort ready to slap you with ..for every joke you make.....thats exciting.

    why would anyone be scared?. ... its advantage noh?
     
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