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anyone remembered their first days with new co-sister?

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by desichica, Jan 23, 2015.

  1. abla

    abla Gold IL'ite

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    Sorry did not realize you live in a joint family here in U.S with your inlaws .Well then it is not that crazy idea : )
     
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    desichica Silver IL'ite

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    You know when the groom side comes to the wedding hall entrance, bride usually comes to the entrance to exchamge flower garlands. Her mothers exact words "she wont be coming there because her make up will be dirty" (i have never seen bride not coming to exchange garlands)
     
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    I have a great relationship with co sis .Was emailing ,chatting each other even before the wedding .

    Well to begin with stay out of each others private matters . As much as you are mad at MIL,FIL,BIL or even your hubby don't vent or bitch about it with her . Built a relationship based on your common interests.
     
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    :hide: cant/wont kick his parents out.. they are at retirement age.. although i do wish they end up staying with BIL and not us. May be that will happen too one day
     
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    She is new to USA .
     
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    Yes please don't kick them out :rotflI did not mean any offense. i simply stated it made more sense for the new couple to live with you now considering you already live in a joint family than just start their family by living with another couple .
     
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    Thank you all for great suggestions... my co-sister seemed nice in texts. lets see how things go in future ..
     
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    Sorry i thought you were being sarcastic in your original post
     
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    dear OP,

    surely some things will happen in future in your house with arrival of co-sis. be prepare for it & dont loos your foot at any step.

    dont suggest any thing. she will have pre preparation on USA life. so maintain distance. if she try for friendship with you, then forward. because they are giving priority to "make up" instead of welcome to BIL?. looks like, they are type of persons who will give importance to their tiny wishes & convenience instead of opposite persons feelings. these people may expect from others & will blame them at back end with out considering situation. mind this point.
     
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