Hello I have been married for 9 years now. When we first got married my husband had no job no license no money. I supported him to the best of my ability as I had lots of money as I was working before marriage in the US. Soon after I had my first baby I quit my job to take care of it since I had no help as my parents were dealing with other issues. As soon as the baby turned one he starts taunting me that I have come to be a predator on him for free food and boarding. Obviously even though I had whole heartedly given him the money (whether repaid or not) I will bring up all the money I have given him and how much I supported him Now we will be married for 10 years in a few months. All of a sudden he gives me back all the money I have given him. He says he wants contributions for all the 10 years I have been with him What does this mean? Why is he giving my money back. A person who is so ill-natured who was a parasite on me and who did not even tolerate giving me food during pregnancy why he is giving me all this and what does he expect from me? He said he wants contributions for monthly expenses.