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Any one believe in this myth? pl help me.

Discussion in 'Miscellaneous in Parenting' started by hema76, Jul 20, 2010.

  1. hema76

    hema76 Silver IL'ite

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    Hi i am hema and having a two year kid. i am having a doubt that is my child is having a small tiny hole like thing in her back near her buttocks my MIl says it is called suzhi and also she told me that there is a myth that a child when having this suzhi, the next child for me will be of the same sex that is, if i try try to conceive then defenietly the next child will be a girl.

    is this true ladies? any one proven to be wrong . that is anyone have kid with this suzhi and got their next baby in different sex.?

    As i am having my first kid as a girl i want to conceive a boy baby.pl tell me is this true.

    Please help me ?:drowning
     
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  2. rajalakshmigopal

    rajalakshmigopal Gold IL'ite

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    Please do not get carried away by this! children are God's gift.people without kids will only know how precious kids are!especially baby girls!
     
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  3. brahan

    brahan Platinum IL'ite

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    That sounds really Funny...I dont think what your MILAW says is gonna be true...

    That purely depends on the time of Conception and various other Factors...

    Dont worr as you wish you will get a Baby Boy ...

    Cheers,
    Brahan:thumbsup
     
  4. daisymom

    daisymom Senior IL'ite

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    first of all, its all nonsense about ur nexxt child surely being a girl. utter nonsense. no one can predict it. it can be a girl, it can be a boy. :rant

    and no one shud differentiate between the two. why not have two angels?:rant

    My mother had two daughters (mind it, it was way way way back...) and Mom Dad stood up to all family pressure to have more kids (to get at least one son). they are perfectly happy now. I am settled and sis is finishing her engineering. they are living an independent life and visit us whenever they wish.

    i dont see too many mothers with Sons being as happy as my parents are.
     
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    Priya_Mommy Gold IL'ite

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    Not sure how far it is true. Even my mom had this experience but unproved result.
    My brother got this suzhi, but I was born after him.....so its unproven!!!
     
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    ShilpaMa IL Hall of Fame

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    I guess its normal for any set of parent to hope for a gal and a boy as they want to buy both the stuff home even if they dint have a traditional longing for a son.

    There are too many fairy tales floating and boy or gal depened on a sperm and you tell her back that you've heard that if the father keeps dominating the mother and taking all decisions for her then its only gals so lemme dominate for a while in order to have a son :biglaugh:biglaugh:biglaugh.
     
  7. hema76

    hema76 Silver IL'ite

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    Thanks priya. i need the reply what u have given.feeling relaxed.
     
  8. hema76

    hema76 Silver IL'ite

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    Thanx for all replies , but i want to clear onething , actually at my first pregnancy i wished to get a girl baby as such i got a beutifull girl.and for now i am xpecting a boy is it wrong to expect the child of our choice?, i don feel like that, a women can xpect any child but if it differs in life she should have the mentality to accept the child happily . that is the person i am . but i use to have this doubt always because of my MIL , and my grand mother . But i am clear now thank u ladies.:thumbsup
     
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    hema76 Silver IL'ite

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    Dear shilpa already my MIL and Sil is telling like that only as i am dominating her son.nice words ur so intellingent .:spin
     

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