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Analyse please. If DH is away , I am happy. Why?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by snehalJoshi, Mar 30, 2013.

  1. vidhya3b

    vidhya3b IL Hall of Fame

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    OP... I think its quite common... You want some time for yourself.. nothing wrong with that..!!!!

    But one question, do you both spend time with each other?? I mean something like chatting, going out, etc...
     
  2. rkgurbani

    rkgurbani IL Hall of Fame

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    I don't think there is anything worng with you. It is just that maybe you are looking forward to that "my space" feeling.
     
  3. SKMK

    SKMK New IL'ite

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    Hello frnd, i totally agree with u.
     
  4. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    I think its a passing phase. I am in your shoes right now.
     
  5. Namita2k13

    Namita2k13 Silver IL'ite

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    I relate with some of the points that my DH is also moody and do not want to enjoy, I feel away from him emotionally. but I am also searching for solution to bring back love between us though I failed. Now I try to focus on me and my son rather than taking efforts on him and hurting my feeling. SO please don't blame yourself that you want him away rom you , its because of unhealthy relationship. Wife needs respect and care from husband and if that is missing then such situations will come
     
  6. Ishika84

    Ishika84 Silver IL'ite

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    You feel good..because you don't enjoy his company and dear all husbands are moody in front of there wife's....no one can tolerate them...:bonk expect wife :rant
    Haha
    And don't feel bad utilize your time....with some new hobby....
     
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    There is nothing wrong in having a me time......................everyone deserves it.......
     
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    Looks like we have some serious red flags. What exactly do you mean by sadistic
     
  9. Awar

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    I think its a lot more common for men to feel that way and i guess it should natural for women to feel that way as well...but my sister never leaves her husband...poor guy he hardly gets time away from her
     
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    hhhhhh......how nice to have a husband who calls you when he is going to be late........
    (not to disregard your feelings or other problems that you may have with him....)
     

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