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An upset always upsets

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by yams, May 18, 2010.

  1. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    I do wonder people about the thing when we are upset for a particular reason like something which we did not expect happens and we feel very much depressed for that not able to concentrate even in the forthcoming works! then why do we actually get upset?????
    but its an unavoidable thing!
    just out of control!
    our mood automatically goes off when such things happen or someone close to us hurt us in any means!
    we often express that we are upset by our mistakes we do and by the way we show the anger on our dear ones!
    hurting themselves even!! and they do continue it!
    is it an continous process as we study in theory???? lets now on stop doing it!
    life is actually a gift and gifted by god to enjoy by us till we hold on it!!
    after it is out of our hand we possibly can't! so why to waste??
    now on start loving those even who hurts you and upsets you!
    is there people who can hurt a person who always smiles at them even after hurting a no of times???????
    ok you are hurt and got upset now! then what is the use in showing it to a human who has similar feelings like us???? they do get the pain same as we get right??? why don't we think of that for a while??
    so when ever we are upset just see a rose its calmness gives a peaceful mind! a nice music it refreshes us and so on!
    keep trying those ways to get rid off such upsets and just spread the smile instead of upsets! right friends?????:thumbsup

    enjoy dears! have a upset free life!
    hope my snippet didn't upset you
    :bonk:biglaugh:biglaugh:biglaugh
     
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  2. devapriya

    devapriya IL Hall of Fame

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    woh.. a wonderful snippet to read!!!!

    i remember one saying........

    IF A PROBLEM CAN BE SOLVED, NO NEED TO WORRY AND
    IF A PROBLEM CANNOT BE SOLVED, THEN WHAT IS THE USE OF WORRYING????
     
  3. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    yes dear!
    thanks for the feedback ma!
    :cheers
     
  4. dhivya312

    dhivya312 Senior IL'ite

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    akka its really nice....:thumbsup no one can regret the upsets in our life.... but as u say we can control it...... super snippet ka...:):thumbsup:bowdown
    i will just read some novels or stories to get distracted from that mood....:)
     
  5. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    nice of you da!
    thanks dear!:cheers
     
  6. Pavithra55

    Pavithra55 Gold IL'ite

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    hi yams. wonderful snippet. liked it a lot. i used get upset very easily even for silly things:drowning. ill try from now to stop being hurt and hurting others. thanx for the post:)
     
  7. archana2008

    archana2008 Gold IL'ite

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    Well said!! I remembered a lesson in school book that mentions how bad mood is spread.
    wife gets upset that maidservant does not come
    upset wife fights with her husband.
    husband gets upset with fight
    upset husband going in lift does not wish his neighbour in lift properly
    neighbour gets upset that person is not respecting with proper wishes.
    upset neighbour..... this goes on..
    One main important lesson in life is Accept life as it comes!!
    You cannot change anything by being Upset.. except for hurting your near and dear ones.
    Keep Smiling and things will be fine. :thumbsup
     
  8. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    dear pavithra!
    that is so nice of you thanks dear!
    :cheers
     
  9. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    hi archana!
    well said dear! i meant to say what you explained actually! thanks for the wonderful and easy explanation!
    :cheers
     
  10. latha85

    latha85 Silver IL'ite

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    hi yams...nice snippet........good thought dear....

    when i'm in upset ,,i will be very calm and read "kantha sasti kavasam"

    that keep my mind in relax.....also heard some music...........

    thanks dear sharing ur thought with us........
     

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