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An Accountants Tribute To A Man And His Marriage!

Discussion in 'Wednesdays with Varalotti' started by varalotti, May 21, 2007.

  1. varalotti

    varalotti IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Sastryji,

    Thanks for your kind words. You have used a nice simile in describing the links I provided to my forums.

    Actually I did not give that links in the email;it is not possible to do it. I gave it in my pm to you. As that is my configured signature for IL you will find it in every post of mine.

    "u have not told me How to incorporate this in place of me." I dont understand this. You want your name to be NISCHEL hereafter in IL? But we do not have the facility to change the user ID in this site. One way I think (subject to approval by the Moderators) is that you create a new ID with NISCHEL, that is enter as a new member in that name. And then you can ask the moderators to delete the old identity.

    regards,
    sridhar
     
  2. varalotti

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    SHE 5 Uploaded

    Most Gracious Ladies,

    As I am about to upload the 5th episode of SHE I have to concede that your verly lively discussion on the 4th episode was even more interesting than the story which occasioned it.

    I am a happy man today to see that this story forum is being turned into an active discussion board where points of view from as far as Philadelphia and Muscat, Chicago and Chennai are discussed and debated.

    Now Episode 5 is more of Shalini's marriage, more of her father Shiva's unequivocal love for his own little girl. It paves the way to provide the heroine an unfettered freedom to make decisions which many women have feared to make.

    Lets get on with the story. (You can click on the links in my signature to directly go to SHE 5.)

    With love and affection to all,
     
  3. varalotti

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    It's now on plastic surgery!

    Most Gracious ILites,
    We are going into the land of plastic surgery this Wednesday. Learning about rhinoplasties, lipos, augmentations and implants.
    Surprised? Just visit this Wednesdays thread.

    (If you see the link Cosmetic Surgery in my signature you may click that to view the thread)

    regards,
     
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  5. corallux

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    Dear V,

    Your story is very touching..it reminded me of my Father-in-law..He lost his wife after facing many 'ups & downs' of life together..He almost lost his will to live & followed her 2 years later.

    It proves why only men were asked to follow the Chatur ashram system..while we women are conditioned to accept all of life's ups & downs. I feel men take things for granted (sorry men).

    People rush to get a widower married off..has anyone thought of the same for a widow? A widow becomes a football in society's eyes-shunted frm one kid's house to another

    You only have to see the movie "water" by Deepa Mehta to understand what a widow undergoes...

    Cheers,
    Corallux

     
  6. Nischel

    Nischel Senior IL'ite

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    Dear Shri...ji
    VANAKKAM
    Having gone through your post of the above Title,I understood that your client " c "is seemed to be more attached to his wife and children.No doubt
    every one will have attach ment to his betterhalf but not so much i think.
    your answer to him that "Had it been in other way gives him some solace i think.Any how since it is a real story it is really appealing.
    Than Q very much
    with best wishes
    Sd/NISCHEL(Ayyappa sastry)
     
  7. varalotti

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    Will You Live With Me?

    Most Gracious ILites,

    "Will You Live With Me, Just For a Day?"

    Shocked? Scandalised? Don't Jump to conclusions. Just read a new thread of mine bearing this name and let me know what you think about it.

    Click the link in my signature 'Will You Live With Me' to reach the thread.

    Regards,
     
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  8. Kamalji

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    Dear Varlotti,

    It seems u are bent on seeing me cry today.So I am going to limit my reading of yr blogs to just one or two a day.And why finish something good very soon.At least I will have something to look forward to read every morning after a hearty breakfast.

    Superb is what I can say, and one of the most moving pieces that I have been privileged to read.

    What u told him is very practical, though I know it must have taken a lot courage to speak out of turn.I too may have done the same as u.


    I wrote a blog last month, regarding something similar.I lites told me why have u written a dark morbid blog, far removed from the humour that u write about.But Varlotti, life is not just about laughter is it ? there are many serious matters to consider.

    I wrote about me being ready for death at this age of 55, though I am hale and hearty as of now.The chances of death are 3, either wife goes first, I go first or we both go together.

    We have our wills ready since many years,everything going to the partner, and all divided between my two daughters in case we go together.

    And I have told my wife, she is free to marry again after me, she should know what I want wheni am alive, rather later wonder what I would think of it.

    As for me, I have told her, I wont marry after her, period.Once is enough.She is a wonderful wife and human being, and I am fortunate to have her, though I cant say the same about her.I am a very difficult and rigid person to handle otherwise.She is a pure Veg, and I am a pure non veg and I have all the habits that one should not have.

    Sorry this got long, so I will stop here, but I don’t know why, u seem to say what I believe in.Superb and what can I say, but thanks for making my day.

    Regards.kamal
     
  9. varalotti

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    Oh my dear, dear, Kamal,
    You are a very kind man. Visited this mofussil accountant's post almost after a year and had some very nice words about that.
    Kamalji you will live for a hundred years and your wife will also live to be a hundred.
    But like as you said an incident like this make us stop in our tracks and think about the deeper meaning of life.
    You know about 30 years ago I went to a man to learn Hindi. Even now that Hindi stands me in good stead. My wife says that my Hindi is only good enough with the shopwallahs in Sarojini Market, New Delhi. I have forgotten many words I have learnt though mera hindi kaam par aatha hai.
    My teacher, may be be blessed, taught me two lines of Hindi poetry, and that's my total knowledge of Hindi literature.

    And here are the lines,
    Chalna jeevan ki kahani
    rukna mauth ki nishani

    Let's not have any qualms, predictions or preparations for our death. We know Kamalji we cannot overstay our alloted time in this caravanserai called the earth even by a milli-second. Nor can we hasten our exit by a nano second.
    But people like Mr.C shake us to our roots.

    How am I ever going to thank you for honouring me and my thread with your visit?
    love,
    sridhar
     
  10. Kamalji

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    Dear Sridhar,

    Somebody said " life is full of misery.If u die young, u leave others miserable, and if u live really long,u will greive over the deaths of yr loved ones [passing away right in front of yr eyes"

    and what is the right time to die Sridhar ? No one klnows, but no one wants to leave the earth, till he or she is taken away.Me, well, anytine from today is fine.god has been kind all these years, when i see younger people go away, then i am very grateful to the lord.

    Thanks for yr blessings, and where do u stay, in which city ?Would love to meet u Sridhar, Thanks for the kind words.kamal
     

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