I mentioned my office issues before in IL and things were smooth for a while. yesterday I was talking casually with one of my colleagues. I was talking an about a job related material and how people change that in their home every few years and not necessary. The guy I was speaking with said “Come on! People change their spouses in few years why not materials” I immediately said that am not comfortable with that kind of talk. he said “God! You are so sensitive and overreact. It was just a casual,funny remark” I know we speak this way with our friends or ina different atmosphere..I don’t know maybe it is coz of his behavior with me in the past I may want to be careful and not encourage.. also I never had or have even men as friends and always had women friends..I don’t know how to take it.. I know life has changed a lot and culture too..hugs are common with opposite gender,casual talks but I feel uncomfortable for that too.. I saw some pics of my previous colleague who is a desi lady and she was hugging these guys like they are best friends..I am too conservative to be all that.. I just want to know about the current culture and if am outdated..