Its regarding a lady in my society who speaks my language and her kid and mine goes to same school. She is an extrovert, everyones favourite as she speaks to all , whereas I am an introvert and speak to only a few selected people with whom I can connect. She is like a happening person, always well dressed even for sitting at home whereas I don't give much importance to being perfect in dress and hair makeup especially when you are not going out for a meeting or function. Coming to the point we both have to spend close to 25 to 30 minutes a day while we wait for our kids transportation. Her kid is very slow in finishing the notes so she always tries to encourage him with toffees and gifts almost every other day. I dont encourage these kind of habits for my child. A certain kind of jealousy is creeping in is what I feel nowadays. Now, when we wait for the transportation, on some days she will be seen talking on the phone, whereas on days when she needs some information from me she will wait for me and my kid with a big smile. Also if any of her other friend in the society passes by, she would immediately cut the call and talk to them. All assume that we are good friends but I know how cunning she is. This pattern in her behaviour is annoying me as I feel she is just using me for her kids incomplete notes. She shares many things with her other friends and sometimes I am the last person to know about it. Also many a times she has deliberately hidden information from me. If there is a project/competition in school for which she is ready with materials, then she wouldnt talk about it till the last minute, whereas if she doesnt know what is to be done on a project, she would come running panicking asking how it's to be done , etc. Her behaviour irritates me as I am not able to avoid her as I have to spend time daily with her. It's very late that I understood her true nature and though I don't see her as an equal to me in terms of wavelength, her behaviour of acting friendly annoys me. And the same attitude her kid is adopting towards my kid nowadays, I.e talk when you need something, else ignore to the core. How to deal.