All is well ! DH back !!

Good quote....really liked it..

 

I think for wives are compromising because of kids only and that is why they don't walk out of marriage. They don't want kind to be part of broken family. But in return DW is suffering every day.. every moment and always thinks of her charcterless husband.. who stabs her from back.. I think that poor lady can nerver forget this and scars will go when she leaves this world.

 

I think for wives are compromising because of kids only and that is why they don't walk out of marriage. They don't want kind to be part of broken family. But in return DW is suffering every day.. every moment and always thinks of her charcterless husband.. who stabs her from back.. I think that poor lady can nerver forget this and scars will go with her when she leaves this world.

 

I agree with you 100%.The scars will not go off definitely.

What could be the best solution to this problem(apart from men being loyal which is more unlikely)?

I don't know how many of you watched that Baghyaraj & Saritha movie.The story goes like this.Baghyaraj will have weakness for women and when Saritha finds out , she chooses to leave him.But at the end Baghyaraj gives her an ultimatum that if she does not come and join him in few days he will get married to somebody else.This lady also begs him at the end (falls at his feet) to be with her.:rant

And a lot of people justify saying that "being a man he is waiting for you for such a loong time.You should be lucky to have such a hubby".:rant

But what about the lady?Even she was alone but she did not go around searching for another one.But the MAN is great.

I think somewhere in middle(or was it from the beginning?) some of our people have changed things to suit their needs.

To me accepting somebody who is/was a cheat is NOT acceptable.But then it is not safe to live alone in this society for a woman.This makes me wonder sometimes "why should women bear all this and why only women?"

 

Take a read through this article. The last four sentences at the bottom, I think, say a lot! No idea what it indicates by 'psychologically sophisticated' though..

Think men are the unfaithful sex? A study shows WOMEN are the biggest cheats - they're just better at lying about it | Mail Online

 

I agree with you 100% on this ,FL!Look at the ADs these days also.The men easily tease the characterless men to be lucky.Even see the movies , we can see so many vivek comedies teasing the wives.I hope you get what I want to say.I do not want to mention it in the public forum.(hint - ******** rombha adivaangi irukke : meaning very old).

I saw some AD recently a guy saying he saved so much to get a lorry then a beautiful driver and then a beautiful cleaner.:rant.

I have the same question.Is it really worth?Kids can easily say "why did you sacrifice for us?".But imagine , it becomes a bit difficult for kids to cope up in the society,particularly our society.The other thing is the society will make the woman fee so miserable for leaving her hubby.They will say "who knows why he went for another woman.If the lady in the house is good everything will be alright".

And there is another funny thing which happens.Some wives say that the other woman is at fault and their hubbies are inncocent.This is heights.

12Adityas, EMA is wrong be it a man or woman.But the topic here is when somebody knows that a her hubby had EMA how and why is she accepting him BACK.