As a part of the ongoing attempt to build Positivity in the Relationships forum,lets discuss a topic closest to our heart.....parenting and Aligning on Parenting Philosophy between couples. Two people from different homes,different back ground get together and produce the miracle of life. Often this little bundle of joy brings us closer to each other.It is but natural that two adults with independent thinking may also have different philosophies on parenting. It could be something as basic as breast feeding to something that often causes friction between couples....disciplining . How did you ,as a couple align your thinking on this important topic? What were your little victories you had as parents. What were the mistakes you made? What would you like to change with the second child? What worked for you and what did not work? How long did it take you to get it right?