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Agglomeration Of Relationship Forum Advice's

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, May 7, 2019.

  1. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    As a child, my family often went to Dr. Nagaraju who was a notch above a chettu-kinda doctor. A chettu-kinda doctor is a doctor who practices under a tree with no MBBS degree proudly hung on the wall. Even as we would be describing our ailment, he used to reach into the draw of his desk and eyes still on the patient, bring out some tablets that he dispensed with an assurance that always be-fooled us.

    Not to imply that any advice dispensers in Relationship forum are clones of my childhood doctor, but you will have to agree there is a superset of advice's that we post and read in Relationship forum in response to situations OP's post.

    Let's compile a list of responses, suggestions and advice that are commonly dished out in Relationship forum.
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  2. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    The most common:

    Focus on yourself, on your happiness, your hobbies. Ignore him.
     
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    Also:
    Money, find it, make it , keep it (away from him), and be economically independent for life.
     
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    Viswamitra Finest Post Winner

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    Stay the course, don't make a mountain out of a molehill, try to have candid conversation lovingly with your husband, keep inlaws in good humor, don't stop any financial help and try to remain calm and normal. If required, take medical help.
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    When women object to MIL present in delivery room or doctor visits during pregnancy, they are asked, "Would you feel like this if it was your mom?"

    And, how can I forget:
    When women object to husband sending (too much) money to his parents, they are asked, "Would you stop your brother also from sending money to your parents?" (It being immaterial whether the OP has a brother or not).
     
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    Viswamitra Finest Post Winner

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    Morally, only people responsible for the pregnancy are the ones who have the right to be present in the labor room.
     
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    He is a good dad, kindly adjust.
     
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    This is a big one.:)

    About 4-5 years back when I joined IL this was very common.

    'She carried him for 9 months and sacrificed so much '.

    I like the new one that I see..
    ' Stop all service '.:)
     
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    All Indian men are like this only .
     
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    All mils are the same .:smile:
     
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