after fight

Hi There

Where there are two people, there is always a scope of difference in opinion and fights - the more imp thing is how you deal with it.

Usually when my husband and i land in a fight, the one with a lower gussa level stops reacting after a point. This way, the conversation stops and both of us get on to our tasks/work independently. Staying away for some time easens the tension and we get back to discuss over it with a stable mind.

For your husband, my simple suggestion would be - leave him alone. Do not give way to his attention seeking techniques and it will be fine soon. In Hindi -

" Khana hai toh khao, warna bhaad mein jaao"

Cheers!
Charu..

 

Hi,

Even my husband is the same way.
Everytime we fight he just starts eating out and says i need not cook for him.
I am trying to make him understand that we are a family and things happen but he is as stubborn as a mule.