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Advise please about divorce

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Chinju, Jun 1, 2007.

  1. ilagandhi

    ilagandhi New IL'ite

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    Re: Advise Please

    I feel tha same as all my other IL friends about your situation, however I do not think it is fair for me to give you any advise as there may be so many other things going on that I may not be aware of.

    What I can say is. Be strong. You seem to be a smart lady, with a great job and a bright future ahead of you. Listen to your heart. This is a time to go within and identify, what is best for you and you only.

    Best of luck. I will keep you in my thoughts and will pray you make the right decision that works best for you. Hang in there.
     
  2. Abha

    Abha Bronze IL'ite

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    hey

    The turn of events is really sad... and i dont think i can advice on this but still i wud say... dont sign on divorce papers... and try everything u can u get back together... u can probably take a short Sabbatical from work... probably a leave for a 2-3 months... and try and sort out all the knots in ur reationships... tell ur husband that at this age whats more important is that you and him shud form a family together... and please do not leave ur job... that wud be a blunder...

    Rest i wud say, pray to god and leave everything to him.

    I will pray for u too.

    ~Abha
     
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    Rekha2007 New IL'ite

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    Hi

    I felt very much for ur situation.
    but u should be very firm and u have to choose the right one.

    I think ur husband has got some complexes.
    And sometimes in-Laws & friends might have said him in a different way that u ar not good and like that.
    He is not getting good salary like u and many other things.
    If it possible get a appointment for a Psycological doctor.
    So that u can treat him well. It is curable.

    U should not lose ur confidence.
    U have got a good job.
    Time will change everything. and will make miracle.
    I will pray for u.

    Take care!
    Cheers
    Rekha.
     
  4. Nivedi

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    Hi Chinju,

    It is unfortunate that you are having a hard time. We all go through tough times and it is our resilience and strength that keeps us going. Times like these raise doubts in our minds as to whether what we are doing is right tor wrong.

    Try answering for yourself whether your husband will change and show responsibility towards you and his daughter. It does not seem that he has shown any responsibility till now, but is there a chance that he will.

    Your job is a plus point and do'nt quit it under any circumstance.

    Rgrds,
    Nivedi
     

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