Advice please

I want a change in him, he should get confidence in me, he is always thinking my parents are doing something , and mum and his grand parents are too good innocent one
which they are not.
he should realise the things.
for now after s discussion ,he was telling that dont think I will come out with u to ur parents house.
I never had an idea of this and next thing was like i should look after his parents as elder DIL, and not mine
dont know why these stupids thoughts are coming to him
I said as a daughter I know what to do.
dont know if things come to the way of divorce and no option, I have to strengthen myself. now he is cool but not sure after talking to is grand parents he blabbers a lot
his own thought process can assess only little I believe.
I tell the problem in detail
first thing after marriage, when we were returning to US, my father also came to give send off. My DH brother also attended the marriage and came 2 days earlier to US.my father called my DH and said in a normal way like ur brother did not tell while leaving. now DH ego hurts , maid a mess use bad language, if he was that much hurt he might have said then itself
but never revealed it and wants a sorry for that after 1 yr.
my father is not that bad to keep something in mind, so when DH asked, he said sorry if u believe it to be wrong.so from that day he is going against all these and behaving stupidly
DH says if they have money , I had knowledge
now dont know how this guys will know my parents efforts, becoz they treated him with all respect inspite of him acussing my mum
he should change

 

Thanks a lot dear for ur boosting
yeah , I am near to my goal yet other 3 exams and i have next week one.
i should be financially independent
that will let many things to settle
he should change knowing the things for all simple things , he has only one feeling my father dont ask how ur father will ask?
dump guy , becoz they gave daughter , they want us to be happy and they dont interfere in anything also
what he thinks large are nothing , if he thinks on his own , then things will change , but thinks on behalf of MIL and her mum
he was saying becoz he married me , he is facing the consequences.................and he has to control me
instead , those words should be mine

 

yeah, if things are worst I should becoz i am almost dying with his mood fluctuations and instead he tells I may leave u

 

fight the situation , i am not knowing at present
ofcourse I would like to disclose this to my parents , becoz if a real situation of leaving comes , they should be cool
just concerned as mum has recent chest pain and father has good reputation in the town
really not knowing dear

 

thanks a lot
he was telling that 1 thing started the issues and he wanted my father to touch feet for that, for once they did thinking DG will be good, yeah, he finds mistakes in all, after a long discussion and saying that I have a brain and know what to tell my parents and other and no 3rd person is entering between us, he was saying ok definately , I had a doubt
and was saying he is not against my parents, and they are moving with money and some time else he will get a chance to point them
ill mentality ofcourse
but give chance, as he was saying u are flexible in thoughts but I am tough i can't change soon
once , I think I find him to be head strong and not using brain
tomm again a new drama starts..........
hoping he will change, but that is sinking now a days
what a rude fellow to says , I might have not married if u want to look after ur parents
god bless them to be happy and long lived and such thing never happens,but daughter has her responsibilities
but not in a mood to discuss with him , as of no chance and simply wasting time.
till today also unable to understand whether he is good or bad.
6 months engaged life , i felt very happy things before were very good, he used to say families live together........... all drama
he cares about my health, helps in studies, but family support is nill hope the guy changes and his mum moves away
as she is always interested about my parents and always keeps telling u are SON IN LAW