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Abroad- Loveless And Lonely Life In Relationship- Narcissistic Partner

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  1. amulya2020

    amulya2020 Silver IL'ite

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    How to stay contended in loveless married life- physically and emotionally. Married to narcissistic person, especially abroad life feels so monotonous and hopeless without family and friends around. Kid is the only source of joy, pregnant again, happy for 1st kid that will have a sibling but little care and love are least expected during the times :disappointed:
     
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    Congratulations for your pregnancy. Please please for good health of your unborn child stay happy. There are many ways to stay happy. Take your first kid to park or places where you both like. Go to india where you will be taken care better. Keep chanting to yourself mantra "I am happy, I am healthy, My kids are happy healthy, Everyone loves me respects me, I am surrounded by love care respect". Please count your blessings. Your husband might be tired from work or something. Don't take anything personally. Eat good healthy food. Lots of fruits vegetables. Good food, good sleep improves mood. If you need to call help for cleaning cooking do that. I regret now that no one told me all these before. I was very stressed during my second pregnancy many years back and my second child get different different health issues whole life now. So please learn from others mistake and take good care of yourself and unborn child.

    Search on youtube positive affirmations and listen to that. Also learn about law of attraction. If you talk positive good then good things will happen.
     
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    I completely agree with ProudIndian to keep yourself happy always amulya2020 during pregnancy.This is a lifetime gift to your unborn child. Lots of hugs to you
     
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    Thank you so much… means a lot :relieved: The dissatisfaction that I mentioned I know I can’t change few things but due to pregnancy my emotions are not being in control sometimes. So far, I tried to deviate, keep myself busy and spent time with my 1st kid most of the time. But I should also remember how long I waited for this moment - may be I should completely leave behind few things and focus on my baby’s health. Rightly said, may be I should focus on long term vision and make a conscious effort to stay positive….
     
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    Will try, thank you!
     
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    I’m sorry you’re going through this. Living abroad with a narcissistic husband, without family or friends, is really hard—especially when you’re pregnant. You cant change him so change yourself and learn more about it if you wish to stay There are many YouTube channels on this subject. Your kids are your biggest joy, so hold on to that. Try to find support, even if it’s just online or with other moms nearby. Take care of yourself—rest well, eat right, and do small things that make you happy. Set clear boundaries with your husband and don’t waste energy on his negativity. If you can, get counseling to help deal with everything. It’s okay to feel lonely and disappointed. Take it day by day. You’re stronger than you think.
     
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    Sure, Thanks for understanding!
     
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    indubalram IL Hall of Fame

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    I am going through the same life for 35 years and still living.
     
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    :/
     

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