A Tricky Situation About Wedding

What @Needtobestrong said.
Have a register marraige in a convinient/safe place and then have a grand wedding wherever when this all is finished.

 

This whole thing sounds fishy. The mother of the "BOY" knows some thing (like the "boy" is WAY past his use-by date) that might put a kibosh on the whole show, if delayed.
The girl's parents should postpone the wedding, and demand money payment from the "boy"'s family, like 10 lakhs per day, to speed up the wedding to the date they want.

 

First option....postpone the wedding for a few months....not worth the risk to anyone.

Second option....choose the option of least travel for least people...that seems to be the would be bride going to the country with PR to be with the groom. Have a registered wedding with video sharing to both families.

If the wedding is postponed,use the time to get to know each other better and iron out the issues regarding the wedding and the finances involved for the two families.

If the couple want a simple wedding ,then the second option is good. Less drama and money involved.

If they want a typical wedding,then wait some months and have it all instead of a ' compromised one'.

 

The first suggestion is given looking at the global pandemic.
Both families moving around to any corner of the world is stupid and totally suicidal at this time .

The girl's family do not have to do anything they don't want to . There is no need to bend over backwards.
Talk to the guys family and put their points across instead of agreeing .

If the marrige has to be in India( post pandemic)...then ask them to organise as they are local and ask them to split the cost.
If the marriage has to happen in Africa then the girl's family in Africa should organise and split the cost.

If the girl's side does not want a wedding during pandemic,why can't they put their foot down and say they won't do it and postpone till after pandemic.

The girl's side cannot keep accepting whatever suggestion comes from the guys mother and then complain .

Just put the foot down .

I am sure most people here think the people concerned are all being ignorant to even think about a normal wedding in such troubled times. Wedding is not a necessity in 2021....life should be more important .

 

Well then do it in the common country. Whoever can attend the wedding there, let them.
What is the problem then?

 

Hi OP, I read in one of your posts that the girl and guy have met just 2 times. I honestly feel that is very little time to know someone. Everyone tends to put their best foot forwards in the first 4-5 meetings. It is only after you meet them for more time that the person gets comfortable and the real person comes out. Everything about the marriage talks since then seems to be other people pushing forward the marriage to happen. It just seems too rush rush. You (or the girl) is also discovering more about the guy through these marriage talks I bet. My advice would be to take some more time to get to know the guy to see if he is really right.