A Tricky Question -The Gynac

A Tricky question – Part 2


OK, the First blog u did not find tricky.Try this one.


We have male and female Gynocologists.Like there was this famous gynac, called Dr.Soonawala, to whom the actress Smita Patil used to go to.My wife also got her first daughter delivered by a Male Gynac.


Now this is the question to the ladies,and I request you all not to take offence to this.The situation is this.

Suppose your husband’s close friend is a male Gynac, the best in town,who treats the high and mighty, and who charges a fortune for a delivery.He is your family friend, very very close.He may be a character like me, boisterous cracking non veg jokes,talks about the beauties he saw abroad etc etc.But he is good in his work.


Now you are pregnant,and u want the best for yrself and yr child, and this doctor friend is the best there is in town, or all over <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-comffice:smarttags" /><st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1lace w:st="on">India</st1lace></st1:country-region>.


The question is this

Would u go for delivery to him, or to anyone else.If u go to him he will do it for almost free, and give his best, as your are a family friend, a bhabhi to him.And he will give u the first priority than even Madhuri Dixit, who has come to him for delivery, as she is just a patient, but u are a family friend.

What would u do ? I will reserve my comments for now, and let u all know later what I and wife would have done.I want to know.

I asked this question to my male friends in Jaipur, telling them that suppose I am that doctor, would u send yr wives to me for the delivery.I will not tell u anything now, I will wait a while. The response from my friends were interesting.

KAMAL MAHTANI

 

Vandhana,

Yes u have to be comfortable with the Doc no doubt,as these are delicate matters.You have the right to choose yr doctor.Thansk and regards.kamal


Vidya,

This doctor is quality doctor the best in <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-comffice:smarttags" /><st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1lace w:st="on">India</st1lace></st1:country-region>, and also a family friend.And he will give u the best treatment ever,just as he would give his wife, or any family member.


Regarding my anwer, I would let my wife be delivered at my friends maternity home/hospital.the reason being that I am getting the best at the cheapest.Isnt that what we all want.

The main problem is of shyness on the ladies side.But when a doctor is doing his job, these things are far removed from his mind.

And if me and wife are getting value for money,and good treatment and service, then where is the question of even tinking.The answer from us would be yes yes yes.

And to my friends whom I asked this question, at first they did noti reply.I told them, suppose one of us is the doctor in question,assuming I am the doctor,would u send yr wives to me for delivery.And they said , NO.I said why ? Ashamed ? or what ? I am the best <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1lace w:st="on">India</st1lace></st1:country-region> has,I will be doing this for free almost, with the best poosbile treatment.

But maybe they fear, something,God knows.

Anyway this is all hypothical,so why break my head over it.I was just curious toknow the reactions from them.

Regards.kamal

 

Suji,

I understand yr viewpoint.Your expierence was bad with hubby's friend, agreed.

In this scenerio, the friend who is the Doc is very close to the family and a decent guy.

maybe it is just the question of feeling shy in front of a know friend,maybe.But each has his or her own experiences really,

Thanks and regards.kamal

 

Krish,

I ask Kamaal ka questions bcs my name Kamal and Kamaal are very similar.HAHA.Thanks .kamal