A New Day,A New plan and A New outlook

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Though I was a silent reader, but had aware of all your posts and was waiting for the good news from you. Dear I’ m so sorry, I never expected this from you. My heart aches for you. I don't know what to say except that my heart is broken for you and if you ever need anything even just a shoulder to cry on I am right here dear. My tight hugs to you dear. Please do not worry, but am sure you definitely will get succeed in this battle, may be takes a few months time, please do not worry. We have so many wonderful il friends here to share our feelings either good or bad. Please be positive (I know you are now, but still). If you would not mind me to advise you, please do not visit this family relations forum, especially this ttc thread for quite some time. There are a lot of other threads in il which makes you relax and laugh, please go through those threads. So that they can make you feel happy and also keep you away from all these ttc words and discussions and worries.

My thoughts and prayers are with you always dear. Take good care of your health.

 

dear priyanka,
u have given so much practical information to us right from ur preparation for IVf all these tips were very useful... this made me also excited that we are going to see a baby (on photo ofcourse !!) who is giving information right from his/ her beginning stage.. i was somehow having the feeling that there would surely be BFP from you !!

But am sad to read the result.. in know that all the first tries, first child are all very sentimental to us... even i felt the same way when had missed abortion of our first child, similarly when the first IUI failed... and i dont somehow we become so mechanical in our things, that the next ones to follow do not give us much excitement... we just do things as they come... and lo suddenly things work out for us !!

So take an enjoyable vacation with you DH and get rejuvenated.... You deserve to be happy when u have given ur best effort... first is this and then comes ur later planning !!

 

Dearie Priyanka,

I had time to read this thread completely.I gave a simple reply since I did not want to spoil the mood of the thread.

I know how disheartening to face such situations,when everything was perfect and things are in place from Day1.I never share personal info here.But I will tell you I have started to move away from my prayers and pooja room.

I know that you are <30.You do have a bright chances of conceiving.Break is much needed during this period to get your cycles on time,reducing your weight(FYI,I have gained 10 kgs in a span of 4 months),getting a fresh air mentally and physically.

I happen to see that you are from HYD.Plan for a trip to HYD.

My goal for life,ttc is not the only thing in life.Remember health and stress free life is more important.If babies happen our way,good.we welcome them.If not,we cannot do anything since Baby Making is not in our hands.

The last paragraph is JMO.

Good Luck Sweetie! Iam proud of you for having matured thoughts at this age!Way to go girl!

 

hi vasu,
i meant that we lose the excitement of later IUIs and IVFs and take it on mechanically, but these do work out to be success though we are less excited .... Got it ??:coffee

We should not stop out attempts just because we are not as excited as we were at the first time.. Just that we should take a genuine break and come back in happy frame of mind... to move on in life.