A Nagging Comment

Yaeh - tell me the truth yaar - am i really so bad over there?

I am under the impression that I have re-discovered my school days but let me know if it is at the cost of you readers.

If so shall limit myself to giving fb's.

 

hi mstrue,
to tell u the truth i would be least bothered what any person interprets of my hello or friendly conservation.we can't stop any person from making any sort of assumption but we can control of our own reactions...........
still,i am little reserved with my dh's friends & male neighbours .
but if i know this & this person says such thing about other ladies i would be aloof to the point of rudeness...............
pragati

 

Ayyo True, what have you done, Natpudan will now be all up in the AIR....he is floating up in the clouds already..:bonk

Okay back to the main point, I am very very friendly by nature and yes I am friendly to guys as well like my friend's DH.......infact coming to think of it I am equally friendly to both my friends and their DHs...:rotfl..but yeah like you the sentence will hurt me if my actions are perceived as "falling for guys"......the hi and byes and occasional chit-chats are not be perceived as anything else other than the friendly gesture. But that will not deter me in changing myself and being cautious to every person that I meet or talk.

I will be me.

 

This guy seems to live in dreamland. One day a married woman will shake him off from his dreams by giving one nice slap. :biglaugh

Are there any??? Even then, I cannot follow it. I always talk talk and talk and also I have many male friends. All best ones! Only if I trust someone, I open up my true self. Else I just maintain a simple Hi/Bye relationship. A smile would do.

 

mstrue,
I've been very busy and havent posted much. But I came across this, and wanted to make a quick post. I havent read any of the posts in this thread, except for your OP in this thread.

First of all a bit of scolding for you since I expect you to be more secure to be yourself One idiotic guy makes some stupid pompous-assed remark and you get all insecure about men? and/or how you "need" to behave? :spin (even though your question says do "some" married men, I sense the insecurity, so the bit of scolding )
IMO, mstrue - I can see one of your konal-logics at work here!! (and I admit I have difficulty in understanding "some" of your konal logics! )

Alright, the answer is - Dont worry. There are bound to be good and not-so-good people in this world. Trust your instincts and start to understand a person. If they are moronic keep your distance. Good folks dont misinterpret your common friendly gestures like this idiotic guy did.

Will write more later if there are questions. Gotta go.