A message from a Reality show

Hi All!
You all must be thinking, what does she write sometimes? Reality shows are far from reality. There is “real” only in the name but it’s a pure unreal and blame game. I also agree with you my friends. But believe me I can’t help myself but to observe what I want to from these shows. I’ve read it many a times that you see what you want to. And yes it’s true, we tend to overlook things which we feel are trivial in nature or don’t interest us.
Just two days back, I was busy doing something on my laptop; was sitting beside my hubby. He was watching news and during break, he was just surfing through various channels. There I came across this show where a few of Mumbai Girls have been sent to a remote village in Punjab. There they are supposed to win the hearts of all villagers and the one, who achieves this, will be a winner. They are given odd tasks to do and the stupid stuff goes on. And friends; with so many girls together, what all can you expect? Yes, bickering, bitching, plotting and planning eliminations and yes, hurling abuses (beeps). (My due regards to this gender! I am also a female.)
When I was watching it, these girls were discussing, whom to nominate and all. There is a girl, who seems to be new to this glamour world and is probably not accustomed to such things; trusted her so-called friends. She was only eliminated from the show as the other girls said that friendship is ok but ultimately it’s a game and they are there to win and not to do some charity.
While leaving the village, this girl said, “I know who eliminated me. I shouldn’t have trusted these girls. They are all fake. I shouldn’t have behaved this way. I did so much of drama, just to be with them and they nominated me.”
What that girl told, is quite right, I feel my friends! Why did she trust such people? Was she not aware of the fact that it’s a game and everyone is there to win? She should have used her brains a bit and behaved in a matured way. Why did she change her real self? When others are diplomatic, even she could have done that. This world is full of hypocrites. You should be matured enough to tackle such people, isn’t it? What I derived from this is:
Be yourself;
Never trust anybody blindly;
Have your blinkers on all the time;
Never to get into a circle of bad things, they bounce back for sure;
Try to fathom nature of different people and act accordingly.
So friends; I feel that even if these shows are all drama and all, they also teach us something. Of course, only if we wish to learn from them!
Regs J:iagree

 

thanks aruna ma'm for your sincere reply.i am sorry to have used many colours in my posts. i'll take utmost care henceforth.i don't wanna lose you as a reader and as a person with forth right feedback. you have not hurt me ma'm.regs-anu

 

Hi prettina! thanks dear for your feedback.I love reading your stuff as a reply to my posts.please continue your patronage.cheers-anu

 

Thanks aruna ma'm for your soothing reply.i'll try my best to minimize the use of colours.anyway.regs-anu

 

Thanks dear kamla ma'm for your compliment and your loving feedback.I also don't watch such shows. I find them complete wastage of time. But yes, once in a while i do try to have a peep in such things. And there i learnt some lessons.It really feels great to look for all positives in your life, no?life is really tricky and we all have to face our day to day challanges and come out as a winner! please do continue your patronage ma'm.regs-anu