A happy man marries the girl he loves; a happier man loves the girl he marries

‘Everybody knows how to build a Beautiful House But
‘Only A Few People Knows How to Live Beautifully in the House.’
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In married life if you have the support of husband then life will be very happy. But that does not mean that he should support her for the wrong things she does too. He should correct her when she is wrong.

In our earlier years my husband was also a strict person. He used to get angry when I am wrong, he never used to see whether we are alone or with others if I am wrong he used to get angry. Sometimes I used to tell him when he is in mood why you get angry in front of others, for which he used to say how can I wait till we are alone to get angry when you are wrong.

Like I had written in the snippet, may be we are different from each other but we complete each other. He used to say his mother and I are like his two eyes, he cant differentiate between us and he has the same love for us. She did not live long and died two years after my marriage. He used to say that he was born after five daughters , so she loves him very much, though he had his elder brother.

My husband's family is a big one consisting of four brothers and eight sisters. There were differences between them but still when any function comes they were together and everyone used to envy our family.

True love doesn't happen right away; it's an ever-growing process. It develops after you've gone through many ups and downs, when you've suffered together, cried together, laughed together. - Ricardo Montalban

Earlier I had dreams about my married life and everything was not fulfilled. Slowly I learnt about my husband. He is a very simple person and does not have any expectations from any one where as I like to dress up nicely and enjoy life. So used to feel bad when he never bothered to dress up well , my brother used to tell me see the good qualities he has , the helping nature and not expecting anything but giving his service to everyone, then you will like him. Slowly I understood him and now after retirement we have come close and cant do without each other
The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart – the place where love resides.”

The strength of a man isn't seen in the width of his shoulders.
It is seen in the width of his arms that encircle you.
The strength of a man isn't in the deep tone of his voice.
It is in the gentle words he whispers.
The strength of a man isn't how many buddies he has.
It is how good a buddy he is with his kids.
The strength of a man isn't in how respected he is at work.
It is in how respected he is at home.
The strength of a man isn't in how hard he hits..
It is in how tender he touches.
The strength of a man isn't how many women he's Loved by.
It is in can he be true to one woman.
The strength of a man isn't in the weight he can lift.
It is in the burdens he can understand and overcome.

 

@sangeethakripa, Sangeetha dear you area lways making this 72 yr old woman happy with your fbs. Glad to know I brought a smile but sad why tears. Glad that you are able tolearn something from my posts,then I feel Ihave achieved something by posting the thread. Thanks dear for your first like and fb and for making my day

 

Glad @katochsimi dear that my thread was useful for you. Glad to know that your hubby is different from others and very caring. Glad my post made you realise the goodness in him. A pat on my back for that .

 

@sangeethakripa dearglad to know you honour and respect my experience. Glad that your husband has the qualities mentioned in the quote. You are lucky.