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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by mridusudha, Jun 12, 2010.

  1. mridusudha

    mridusudha Silver IL'ite

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    I guess this thread is taking a different path with a different tone.

    Moderators - Don't you think this thread should be closed so that it doesn't deviate from the original point of view??
     
  2. SriVidya75

    SriVidya75 Platinum IL'ite

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    Dont worry Sudha!! we will keep it on track:) This is a good thread you have started!!! :thumbsup
     
  3. 1janavi

    1janavi Bronze IL'ite

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    Mridusudha,I completely agree with you.Women have to be aware of what they are getting into.I had an arranged marriage so I didnot know what to do
    for family planning immediately after marriage.Though I thought it wouldn't be necessary for a couple of days into married life ,I dint want to take a chance so I went ahead to a doctor and was on pills.
    Even my doctor felt I was bold and forward but I dint explain what I felt.

    I suggest all ladies getting married to be careful with pregnancy especially when they are into arranged marriage.I have seen so many girls getting pregnant soon after their marraige and most of the time it is not a planned one.

    Know your partner and foresee a future with eachother before getting a baby into the world.
     
  4. mithy232

    mithy232 Silver IL'ite

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    NO kids in WAR ZONE please :crazy
     
  5. Spiderman1

    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    1janavi,

    Its not just a "woman" thing. Guy and Girl (a.k.a. Couple) need to be aware and plan to be ready.
     
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  6. Tridev

    Tridev Silver IL'ite

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    The whole notion that is going around is that only women are the ones who are really worrying about kids if the marriage is broken later...How partial......The only thing where I see a woman should worry is if she has a kid and wants to remarry, that will become a bottleneck , that can cause some issues to child too as step parents may not treat them well. And hence wants to be cautious.....

    Again having kid is same whether its man or woman both share the responsibility..



     
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  7. Spiderman1

    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    To be fair, not all IL-ites think that way, most are quite fair. But there are some who require a gentle reminder from time to time about the above fact and we provide that :)

    Yes.
     
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    Tridev Silver IL'ite

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    There was another comment that woman needs a partner and not a sperm donor... well that was gross to call father a sperm donor just because marriage does not work... and in many cases both are parties to the broken marriage.....

     
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    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    I am in agreement with you.
     
  10. mstrue

    mstrue New IL'ite

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    :thumbsup Very Correct, SP & Tridev.
     

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