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A friend request in facebook

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by maya84, May 17, 2013.

  1. Mahajanpragati

    Mahajanpragati Platinum IL'ite

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    hi,
    i am sorry I sort of suggested you accept his friendship offer...........as you rightly said you don't know him personally so would not accept his offer which on littlel thinking i feel is good ,mature decision......
     
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  2. muthu21

    muthu21 Gold IL'ite

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    visualising those scenes.. perfect tackling..
    just make sure you update what happened to the request..
     
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  3. NaveenaSasi

    NaveenaSasi Gold IL'ite

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    Hey wat an interesting story.. Felt like I watched a short movie.. ;-)
     
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  4. smiling4u

    smiling4u Senior IL'ite

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    good one..reminded me of my college days :)
     
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  5. Hyral

    Hyral Gold IL'ite

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    Same here....my DH is not possessive about me in such context where he should be like me talking to my male friends from college times or school...infact he loves to interact with them if I introduce him to them over phone.

    Other wise he is possessive of me...if ever we fight and I am giving silent treatment...resenting myself from going near him...he wouldnt let me go else where in home .... I love it...Or if am sick..like having cold.he would get protective of me...like if visit any of his relatives he while they are serving ice cream or something cold...i get confused how to refuse or at times i really wanna have one..he would before i accept would politely say...no she is not fine...so she cant eat this...and even if i insist to have some he wont allow :( i really dislike him that time hehehe ;) but soon he would even take leave from there soon....saying I need rest now...though i wanna stay for lil long...me being talkative...i love to talk n talk.... I LOVE HIM for this
     
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  6. sacredbell

    sacredbell Silver IL'ite

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    Since you don't know him personally, just leave the face book request as it is..
    Don't accept it or Reject it...

    If you accept it, he may take it as a 'positive' sign and try to establish closer touch with you.. It could be a disturbance later on.. You don't know what is in his mind..
    If you reject his request, he may feel insulted.. As you have no such intention, leave the request as it is..
    just IGNORE his request...

    At the end, they spoiled your college life.. Do you want to spoil the peace of mind which you currently enjoying?
     
    Last edited: May 20, 2013
  7. rakinya

    rakinya Platinum IL'ite

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    Very well written Maya. I could visualize each and every scene from your words.
    By the way, did you accept his request?
     
  8. revathib

    revathib Bronze IL'ite

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    Well Narrated.. 10mts short film story like... enjoyed very much and a very matured decision taken..
    Very well handled...cheers..

    revathi
     
  9. maya84

    maya84 Gold IL'ite

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    Thanks everyone for your feedback.
    I just ignored the request as I'm not interested in developing a friendship with him.
    As sacredbell mentioned we won't know what is there in his mind.
     
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  10. DGcreative

    DGcreative Platinum IL'ite

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    Good thinking:thumbsup
     

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