A Father Par Excellence Napoleon

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  1. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Taking the liberty to making the question a little generic first:

    In an arranged marriage scenario, where A and B do not know each other but are similar in social status, wealth, and education, would A still choose to marry B if B had a significant health condition that affects daily life?

    My answer - mostly no. "A" would agree to the match only if they have a strong compelling reason.
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Most results when I google it :facepalm: are videos in Tamil. Question about the girl's family - is she from a poor, middle class, upper middle class or is it an ultra rich family?
     
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    chanchitra Platinum IL'ite

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    Of course. That's the beauty of US.
    All public spaces are also wheelchair accessible.
     
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    lavani Platinum IL'ite

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    i resonate. marriage is a long time together. may be it feels good for a year or couple of years but after some time, these will surface. i cannot view my child to be a life time nurse. sorry it is blunt statement.
     
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    Parents look poor not middle class (again let us not go into the 'Appearances Are Deceptive' thing). My best guess is girl's family is associated to Napoleon couple for many years and may be their workers, and they knew the girl from very long time. Girl looks genuine but may not really know real challenges marrying a muscular dystrophy person now. Some medications for muscular dystrophy are getting FDA approval. Hope boy gets well soon. My friend's son has muscular dystrophy, so got a chance to dig the FDA approval med.
     
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    Did some digging.
    Akshaya family were neighbors with sudha's Mom before covid time.
     
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    Googled a few more wedding videos.

    They look like a regular happy couple, the typical cute cringy lovey dovey photo shoots, pastel matching clothes etc. in carefully chosen picturesque venues.

    Why does anyone have a problem with all this!
     
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    Not to sound crass but people with this condition generally don’t have a typical lifespan. I commend the family for doing the best they can.
     
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    Yes. The Muscle mass get wasted and they eventually die sooner.
    Also all states provide caregivers for disabled adults till their lifespan. So it's not that the wife would be doing a nurse job.
     
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    The girl seems to be from a poor family.
    She is moving from Tirunelveli to America. Will become a USC in few years. After husband would inherit his wealth.
    Also I have no doubt that Napoleon family will give her all love and respect .
    Better than marrying a abusive drunkard husband and getting hit and kicked everyday
     
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