A Father Par Excellence Napoleon

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    chanchitra Platinum IL'ite

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    Yes. No one knows the physical capability of the boy. His disability could be mild or severe.
    It's none of people business to speculate.
    Why people can't just wish well for his marriage or just move on.
    Some are making lots of Assumptions.
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Thankfully now we have recognition and acceptance that peoples' needs for physical intimacy, sex, human touch can vary.

    One starting point for those interested:
    Asexuality & Mental Health
     
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    He is talking after his Engagement. He says Thank you to all the Good wishes
    He says, I am seeing some negative wishes too. It's fine. It's not making me sad. I will show that I can live a happy and successful life
     
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    Yes, ideally, people would wish well and move on.

    Every parent has the right to do what they want for their child's happiness and plan for their long-term security.
     
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    I didn’t know much about actor Napoleon beyond his roles as a villain in some older movies. However, seeing his dedication to his disabled son during his engagement made me admire him deeply as a father. Dhanush is incredibly fortunate to have parents like Napoleon and Sutha, who are not only supportive but have done everything possible to improve his life, despite the challenges he faces.

    Regarding his marriage, there have been many negative comments on social media, which have undoubtedly affected the groom, his bride, and their families. Marriage is a deeply personal matter, and what matters most in a relationship varies greatly between people—whether it’s physical closeness, social standing, family, or other factors, which can change over time and depend on individual circumstances and backgrounds.

    In my experience, I’ve seen all kinds of marriages: some where genuine love led women to marry men with disabilities, and others where people made compromises for wealth or security. I’ve even seen situations where families either manipulate their daughters into marriages without full disclosure or simply fail to consider the realities of such a commitment, including the challenges of a sexless marriage.

    Ultimately, this is Dhanush and his partner's life and their choice. There is no blame here—they have been transparent, and there is no evidence of any coercion, whether physical, financial, or emotional.
     
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    Could not stop wondering would a girl with same status, beauty, money, education agree to marry him in an arranged marriage? I making my statement clear I am not saying this girl married for money.
     
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    Maybe Not.
    People make decisions based on their situation.
     
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    I remember from one of his previous interviews, that he was so shocked when his wife asked him to take out the trash. His immediate reaction was like, hey I am a Union minister, this was when he was still a minister and visiting his family in the US. Leaving his position in the ministry, completely retiring from politics for the sake of his family is no small feat!

    I also saw his home tour couple of years back, the whole house is designed with ease of access for his son. There is lift access to every floor including the pool area!
     
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