A complaining nature is not an endearing quality.

Let me not start off that we are forever complaining, but there is no denying that quite often we love to complain!

The foremost perennial complaint is about God! How strange?? It is He who has gifted us our very lives, but still we grieve over what we are not or what we have not.

There is no doubt that we enjoy all comforts of life, but complaining without fail!
If it is very hot, we complain.
If it rains, we do it more because our commuting gets restricted!

We must remember that by complaining we only make others irritable – who wants to listen to it, anyway??

By complaining we add stress and pressure to an already problematic situation and it is hurtful as well.

Our complaining produces a gut reaction in others and it gets on their nerves as well.
They very often feel like showing us the way out. In their eyes, we are seen inadequate and our credibility is also damaged, sometimes.

Very often, we complain when we don’t want to do a thing or doubt if it would be beyond us to do. This complaining from us only proves that we are not in charge and it also reveals we lack patience and the ability to act for ourselves.
The best way to rephrase a complaint would be to put it across in friendly and helpful terms like the way Banks remind us of overdue payments!

When somebody solicits our help by way of a complaint, we can take the sting out of it by paying attention to it even if it is beyond our scope.

Finally, I personally feel, complaining shows us in poor light as powerless and helpless.
The weaknesses we can’t face in ourselves are what we complain about most in others.

I tell myself the following:
I take responsibility for my life.
I have the power to make things better.
I always have a choice.

Love,
Chithra.

 

Thanks,Shan! You gave me no chance to complain that there has been no reply hours after I posted!!
There are people to whom complaining for one thing or other, atleast about the "foul weather" is second nature. Our complaint makes us look like a "cry-baby", I feel!
Love,
Chithra.

 

Whenever somebody is complaining, we tend to retort less for fear of infuriating them.
Complaing about in-laws? Some ladies have developed it as a specialised art!! That is sure, infectitious, I agree. There are more "whiners" around us which prompted me to blog on this topic!
Love,
Chithra.

 

people may not have a valid thing to say, so just come out with a complaint!!
Even in our own forum, there are many who complain "nobody sends me FBs... blah blah".Why complain? take it that you must improve! My last blog received the (so far) poorest views & replies. But, I just enjoyed writing it for my own pleasure. Period!!
I do not want to complain!
Love,
Chithra.

 

complaining is a way of life for some people. If they fail to do a job also, they give a complaint about others as an excuse.
Love,
Chithra.