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A Blessing in Disguise-Happy valentines day

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  1. stranger127

    stranger127 Silver IL'ite

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    It is always said a marriage brings so many changes. .I never understood its significance till 8 months back...These 8 months had brought so many surprises in pleasant & rude ways as well to make me understand where I am heading to...One thing that stood rock solid by me in all the turbulent times was LOVE in its purest form which I got from my family & DHconsole1. Valentine’s day is just 2 days ahead & I was thinking who is my true valentine…& here it goes

    My family (mom, dad & sibling): I could not ask for more from god & whole heartedly thank him for giving them to me. The happiness in their eyes when they got a man for me, the moment when they understood that he is the one, their patience when unexpected happened, their reassurances to me when I was confused, their strong faith in the almighty, their frail aging body, their quest to see their daughter in peace without tears, their curses on themselves doubting their decision, their illness at present, the strength & the moral values they give me always, my sweet sibling’s comforting words just to see a smile on my face, so many things comes in front of me picture perfect. Today am a different person. I comfort them & give them that much needed confidence to reassure them that their decision was custom made for me as no one person would fit into the shoes of my H more appropriately than my DH. Life is really beautiful.
    DH: A man I met just 8 months back & he has created a huge impact in my life. His unconditional love, his patience, his caring nature, his love & concern for me irrespective of whatever happened, his hug close to his heart with tears saying I will protect you from any situation whenever I cried, whenever he told that his happiness is solely dependent on me, whenever he told that he is the luckiest person in the world to get me, whenever he told that he saw his unseen dad in me, whenever he told me not to leave him even in death, whenever he told me that he respects my parents he made me comfortable & ready to face any challenge that would come my way. Life is really beautiful.:kiss
    This is the situation for now. Things will change in the uncertain future for sure. But I don’t want to think more instead live for the present.
    Myself: Last but not the least, I, me, myself. When I looked into the mirror today, I felt sad seeing the bruises in my face & hands. Two weeks back, a flamboyant confident biker otherwise, I fell down in the highways but luckily escaped a severe accident. Late in the night in an isolated route there was no one to help me out. I was not able to get up & fell down again. The terrible pain made me cry aloud. But I got up & with bruises started driving back home. Three days back I accidentally poured boiling milk on my legs & had boils making it difficult to even walk. Still with none of my loved ones by my side, I stood up & got back to work. This has never happened to me in the past. I saw my concentration shattering lost in thoughts especially after marriage. But still somebody always stood by me & it was “ME” who went unnoticed all these days. My confidence & my will power to get back even if life threw so much of uncertainities. I smiled at myself & looked so beautiful. Where have I been all these days worrying about so many things spoiling my happiness?
    Realisation dawned & to be a true valentine to my loved ones, I should first love MYSELF as that is eternal with no uncertainties. Iam my true valentine. With a great smile I started off on my 2 wheeler like a queen head held high:queen. I stopped in the highways to see a little impoverished girl playing happily with her toddler sister. I took a dairy milk & gave it to her. She caught hold of my hands & told thanks didi with her beautiful smile. That gave me peace. So aren’t problems coming our way actually a blessing in disguise to make us appreciate & acknowledge all the wonderful things be it small or big happening in our lives. So a special thanks to all wonderful ladies in IL for giving me that much needed hope.
    Advance valentines day wishes to all :cheers
     
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  2. YoGirl

    YoGirl Gold IL'ite

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    I got goosebumps and tears esp reading the 'Myself' section...
    Such a thought provoker..
     
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    vjan29 Platinum IL'ite

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    Very nicely written. The "My self" section shows your confidence and you are self motivate. But why did you say, while the boiling milk accidentally fell on your legs and no one were there to care, your husband is there know.
     
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    stranger127 Silver IL'ite

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    oops never thought it would create such an impact:) Thanks Yogirl:)
     
  5. stranger127

    stranger127 Silver IL'ite

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    Thanks vjan for coming in..ya am far away in a different place from my parents & DH:( Praying almighty to unite together soon..So I have no other go but to be strong:)
     
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    Pallavi4me Platinum IL'ite

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    That's so good to read this post from you stranger127. Be blessed, at the same time take care of yourself. Its okay to relax a bit when you are strained. Recover from those wounds soon. Enjoy the valentine's day.
     
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    swathiiyer Silver IL'ite

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    Beautifully written... Loved reading the "Myself" part :thumbsup
     
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    vjan29 Platinum IL'ite

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    @Stanger127, Oh sorry, I didn't know you are staying away from DH. Take care.
     
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    rajinitk4 IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi Stranger

    Nice writeup. Brought tears in my eyes. Take care of yourself. Dont be distracted
     
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    stranger127 Silver IL'ite

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    Thank you so much pallavi for being there with your encouraging words always. It really means a lot to me. The wounds are healing slowly & am able to manage without much difficulty. Wish you too a v happy valentines day:)
     

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