Hello everyone, My kid used to sleep on her own on and off. I moved her to a different bed in our master bedroom so that she practices sleeping separately. When she was around 5, she volunteered herself to sleep in her own room without much fuss. occasionally I will go sleep in her bed when she is sick or she comes to our bed when she has a bad dream. But would go back to normal. I moved to a new house couple months ago and she started coming back to the bed room more frequently in the middle of the night. Her room has a straight view to our bed room, and we keep with bed lights on in her room and our room, so that she can see us if she wakes up in the middle of the night.Since couple weeks she sleeps in our bed. I am not comfortable with it. we have enough cuddles before going to bed and waking up, and we spend a lot of time with her doing things together. I somehow cannot adjust to her sleeping with us now. I feel like it is not normal for an 8 yr old to sleep in between mom and dad. She stalls/ dodges the discussions or suggestions on sleeping in her own room. She puts if off, i will start sleeping in my bed from next monday, and then come monday, she tells lets do it from next week. My husband seems not bothered about any of these. and when I say something strict, she falls back on him and it makes me the bad guy. Am I overthinking? How to deal with this?