57 ways of winning your husband’s love

billybob · Apr 21, 2011

aminroop said: ↑

well i think marriage is just one aspect of a person's life. making it your entire life is the greatest blunder. your entire life should not revolve around only your spouse....(or husband, in this context).

and if that happens you will only end up being super-frustrated , cos with compromises and sacrifices comes expectations and when they are not met with, bitterness creeps into the relationship in the long run.

so its best to just do however much you are capable of without feeling burdened instead of compromising and sacrificing at every instance whether you are the wife or the husband.

JMO.
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Agree with Aminroop 100%, I treat my DH as a good friend, he needs to know unpleasant side of me as well. Some days he nags and some days I do. These seem to be satisavitri rules as well.

billybob · Apr 21, 2011

flowerlady said: ↑

Thanks a lot , its an eye -opener ! :thumbsup
I like the point about making jokes or googling for them , awesome .
Also about having a race and letting him win.:yes:
Why not add some more tips -
1. Always sleep after he sleeps and get up before he does in the morning .
2. Keep smiling whatever the occasion.
3. Never ever ask him any questions about anything . It may irritate him.
4. Never let him see you without makeup .
5 Always walk a few steps behind him like a shadow.
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Hilarious flower lady

SallyR · Apr 21, 2011

Reminded me of an email I received a while ago. [FONT=&quot]Supposed to be from a magazine giving advice to newlywed women during 1950’s. Not sure about its authenticity, but was funny to read especially the last line....
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[FONT=&quot]The Good Wives Guide[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Have dinner ready. [/FONT] [FONT=&quot]

Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Prepare yourself. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Clear away clutter. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, papers, etc. and then run a dustcloth over the tables. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Over the winter months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Prepare the children. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces, comb their hair, and if necessary change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Minimise all noise. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Be happy to see him. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Listen to him. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the right time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Make the evening his. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, and his real need to be at home and relax. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Your goal. [/FONT]
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Try to make sure that your home is a place of peace and tranquillity where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit. [/FONT]
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Don't greet him with complaints and problems. [/FONT]
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Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Make him comfortable. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or a warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgement or integrity. Remember, he is master of the house and as such, will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]You have no right to question him.

A good wife knows her place.

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babycorn · Apr 22, 2011

FL,You made my day.It was absolutely hilarious:cheers

silver08 · Apr 22, 2011

Thank you one and all for the feedback.

& nice additions tooo.

SujySreeram · Apr 22, 2011

I agree with you aminroop. That's true.

billybob · Apr 23, 2011

Are there any rules for men?
are we road to their road to paradise?
If they please us does it mean they are doing it for god?
Women work day and night bear and raise children, they are not doing a favor to us
It is not his money it is belongs to both spouses
I am sorry some of the rules are insulting and demeaning women, this may be due to cultural differences.

priya4prabhu · Apr 25, 2011

Wonderful tips.. thanks for sharing

kiranmadhu · May 26, 2011

SallyR, i wanted to laugh badly throughout the day ( was bad day really. my DH gets on my nerves.). thank goodness i saw your post atleast now.
it was so much hilarious and timely. i couldn't stop laughing. God bless u.

kiranmadhu · May 26, 2011

some of them are more like etiquettes that both the husband and wife need to cultivate.
the points 16, 22, 35, 46 and 56 will make any woman angry.
this am sure is not part of islam. it was devised by some crazy MCP.