Nothing to worry OP. My son also used to play with utensils, especially, wok, pressure cooker etc. So I gave him all that with wooden spoons. Even bought a cooking set which he didn't use. Also used child lock in all cabinets and made sure I kept every thing away from him so that he can't grab. You can also arrange a designated play area to entertain. I used to spend one hour for bath. I used kids bath tub,in our bath tub, fill it with water and toys. Also allowed him to play for more than half hour every day. I used to watch him and play with him patiently. They dont have proper communication skills. Have lot of patience. He will gain those skills by 4 yrs old. So when you get angry, they see only anger and not what you are trying to say. So take deep breath, cool down and talk softly. Changing attention is one way to divert their mind. Also dont yield to his tantrums. If he misbehave, give him time out. I used to keep him on my kitchen counter top, wait there till he calm down. Tell him it's time out and you can't accept this behavior. Enjoy these period, later we will miss it..