Read this in a social site. More than cute, I found it to be sensible and so am sharing this. Here goes the 10 rules... 1. Never both be angry at the same time. 2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire. 3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate. 4. If you must criticize, do it lovingly. 5. Never bring up mistakes of the past. 6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other. 7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled. 8. At least opnce every day, say a kind or complimentary word to your life partner. 9. When you have done something wrong, admit it and ask for forgiveness. 10. Remember it takes two to make a quarrel.
That seems to be the undoing of so many ladies who have issues with their DH and MIL. Better to keep a calm voice and tempermant, and try not to be bugged by petty issues (i.e. my MIL likes my co-sis instead of me)
Its only going to be 3 yrs for me in a month. I am yet to experience more. But so far, married life has been good, happy and satisfying I hope every one get the same satisfaction in their lives.
dear jennysrik those were some really thoughtful words from you. especially the, criticise but lovingly one. will always remember these when i get married!!!