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10 Good PRO'S of leaving EX Husband !

Discussion in 'Life Without Spouse' started by Maddy2087, Jan 10, 2014.

  1. Maddy2087

    Maddy2087 Platinum IL'ite

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    Hi all my darlings,

    What were the 10 amazing things you felt after leaving your EX?Kindly share your feelings here and i am sure that it will be so helpful in relieving yourself from unwanted burden. Let me the first one to share .

    1) I was very happy that i could work and be financial independent in life because he never wanted me to work inspite of being sponsored with an EAD card.moneysmiley
    2) I can study further without having to convince him on how important it is for me to pursue my education.
    3)I was happy because i could shop as much as i want without having to take his permission .He was very dexterous at drawing circumference for me .
    4) I can take care of my parents without having someone to curse them . This was the best blessing i received because i love my parents and sister to death.They mean the world to me.
    5) I am happy that i am a free bird and liberated.
    6) I can go wherever and whenever i want without having to take his permissions.
    7) I never have to worry about who he is talking to early morning stealthy inside the bathroom without my knowledge.
    8) I would never have to cook 3 times a day, wash all his dirty clothes , clean all the utensils , complete all the household work without any help.They considered me a servant and a cook :( .
    9)I never have to hear screams , banging , cuss , bad words again ever in life !
    10) There is nobody to put me down and break my confidence. I can do what ever i like and i am sooooooooooooooo happy for that.:party

    I AM ADDING 2 MORE EXTRA :

    11) I don't have to cook for my FIL who always criticized me and planned all the mind games with his son to ruin my life.
    12) Most importantly i don't have to face that loser family again in life except court trials which i am totally fine with !!!


    I was thinking about this yesterday and had such a biggggggg smile :rotfl . I gave a huge thumbs up to my happiness after knowing all the pro's.I am sure you will also have a big smile transferred to your face after writing all the pro's of leaving your ex.

    There is more to be added to this list but, later in some other post .

    Please share my dear friends. I am curious to know :Bow:

    PS : YOU ARE FREE TO VENT AS MUCH AS YOU WANT . GET THAT BURDEN OUT . 2014 IS WELCOMING US WITH THE BEST .
    LETS CELEBRATE.

    With love,
    Maddy
     
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  2. Anitap

    Anitap IL Hall of Fame

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    i like you and your posts maddy.
     
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    Maddy2087 Platinum IL'ite

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    Anita you made my day dear by saying that hugsmiley.
     
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    chillbreeze Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Maddy your posts are inspiring and a source of hope to many sufferers out there. Wish you all happiness in 2014.
     
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    Maddy2087 Platinum IL'ite

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    Thank you soo soo much dear for such kind words. I wish you a very happy and merry 2014 . Stay blessed always ! :)

    With Love,
    Maddy
     
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    Thats a very good and positive way of looking at it.. :) happy that you are happy.
    you are an inspiration for many ladies. Be blessed
     
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    I am so glad and a big thanks to indusladies, that I came to know you dear. may the new year bring lots of joy n cheer in your life. Stay blessed. :kiss
     
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    Thank you so much for the appreciation dear and i seriously believe its the best way to look at this situation :). Thanks again dear :)
     
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    Awww that's sooo sweet of you to say that Shama dear . I am glad to meet you to through Indusladies too:) . Happy new year to you and may all your dreams and desires come true this year and in coming many years :).

    With love,
    Maddy
     
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    Hi Maddy
    First of all a very happy blessed new year to you... And me too '
    Glad to say that you have started this thread with a lot of positive attitude ...
    I have ten things that i felt glad when i left my ex husband and i would also like to share ten things that i am glad to find in my current husband... May god bless him
    My ex husband...
    1-i am glad i got freedom from hypocrite people
    2-i am free to express whatever i feel
    3-i am glad that i am not a commercial chef by cooking for 20 people in one go at a time everyday
    4-i am spared of the mind games that made my life horribble
    5-I dDONT have to please everybody every time
    6-i am free to wear what i want and when to come back home
    7-divorce from my ex has made me bold and given me a very liberal outlook to study and appreciate other religions and their people
    8-i am free to do and take up whatever profession i desire
    9-i am free to do charity work for animals
    10-i am from all the physical,mental and emotional abuse from every member of his family and extended family
    My current hubby
    1-does not support hypocrisy
    2-stood by me when his family friends opposed me
    3-is very respectful of my liberal religious ideas though he is a very religious person
    4-I share half of the household chores with him as he considers it his duty to share the chores even when I am at home and he is working (very rare thinking in Indian male species)
    5-supports feminist activities (again very rare thinking in Indian male species)
    6-I get good appreciation and acknowledgement for me being more intellectually capable in some areas
    7-is very supportive and proud of the fact that we have an inter religious marriage
    8-I am not a commercial chef anymore
    9-I get to chose what I want to do in life and when I want to do it
    10- doesn't think I am his follower and he is the God
    Sorry Maddy
    I know that your post was about sharing the pros of leaving your ex but I couldn't help adding the cons of coming in with my current hubby, just hope u dont mind

    Good day dear and may god bless you
    Love
    Kiraan
     
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