You’re overthinking things with the a,b and c. Who is telling you do so and so? You’re an adult do what suits you. There is no good in someone...
Can you explain a bit more about what happened at work? Like you said he was trying to cover his own back well maybe that’s why he made you feel bad.
My battery is literally going to die and I don’t want to read and not reply.
from your posts you seem like a brave good person. Don’t let other...
No I wouldn’t dare. My MIL has bad hygiene and she has really hairy legs that make me feel very uncomfortable. I don’t think it’s normal in the west.
I call husband by name. Used to call his parents mum and dad. When we lived with my parents he couldn’t even say the word mum and dad. For this...
You’re lucky he realised he was abused. My MiL did that with both her sons. It’s not normal human behaviour.
Tell your mum not to pick her call up. Ring her back later and then cut the phone and say your busy. You do the same.
Your MIL sounds selfish and ignorant. Wiping the blood when your father is hurt.
Don’t waste life thinking about them. Hopefully time will heal it one day even if it’s many years down the line. But enjoy life right now.
Stop caring about them and focus on your own family. When your hubby won’t be there they won’t care.