Painful process - Dont know how to cope up!!!!

Godgift

Your user name itself is so nice .. I am sure you will be blessed with a childsoon..which will definitely be God's gift to you .

Please dont lose hope. Since you have so much faith in God , I am sure He is never going to let you down.

My niece went through a terrible time trying to conceive and last year she conceived in her second attempt at IVF and is now is the proud mother of a beautiful baby boy. He is really Gods gift . I am sure you will also have success. I am sure there are excellent doctors available where you live . I am sure some ILite from that area would be able to help you too.

If you are from chennai or have somebody in chennai who will go and offer prayers for you , I would suggest the Singaperumal Koil. I am sure He will listen to your prayer.

And please..dont dont ever think Why I am being given this .. this is not a punishment or anything God is giving you because he doesnt like you . Its just that some things take time.

Be patient, dont lose faith, be cheerful all the time and I am sure very soon we will get the most wonderful news from you .

With blessings

Bhooma

 

Hi Godgift, Vidya and Vgetin,

I was moved after reading all your experiences and i know what it is to go through them since im also sailing in the same boat, I salute your confidence and positive attitude :bowdown:bowdown:bowdown

My prayers with all of you and im very confident theat God will soon bless us all with a healthy baby and we will soon have our little bundle of joy

Stay confident and be cheerful, our cutie baby is on its way.

Prayers and Wishes
Prems

 

Dear Godgift:
I am happy to see your posting. I am sure you might have gone through the spirituality forum in IL by now. If not, please do go through them. I believe in those powerful slokas and hopefully you will also feel the positive energy by reciting those. This is my humble suggestion please don't get me wrong.
I will be in touch with you here.....

 

God bless you Godgift and make all your wishes come true!

 

Remember it is not the process of childbirth that makes you a mother, but the years of loving, nurturing and caring for a child is what makes one a mother. Although I know it is a painful journey (been there) that you have gone through, remember that there are other options. I do pray for you and hubby to become parents. On a positive note, my cousin tried for 14 yrs to concieve and finally did with a girl...3yrs later she had a boy. So, it is possible. In the next few months try to relax and not think about getting pregnant but just enjoy each other. Tension also plays a role in when trying to concieve. Good Luck Dears!

 

Hi Godgift,

I am really sorry to know that all your efforts have gone into vain. I still feel there is a hope as age is your side.

Try Acupuncture with IVF and chinese herbal medicines.I see that you are in Parsippany,NJ here is the link for the closest Acupuncture specialist near to your place.

North Jersey Center for Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine

I came across as as i was searching for Acupuncturists in NJ as i also live in NJ.

Hope this helps you. Guys please pour in your views on chinese herbals & acupuncture for improving infertility issues.

Love
Pravalli.

 

dear godgift,

I totally agree with you about the emotional and physical pain you need to go through when going through several type of infertility treatment. Believe me dear; no one knows this better than me who has been suffering unexplained infertility from last 14 year and almost at the end of this journey. My case was a bigger pain as doctors could not find even a single reason in us for not having a child. I had gone through several round of IUI and IVFs with partial success, but no child.
Now, even I am diagnosted with High FSH but that is due to my advance age.
Though having the high FSH means you have less no. of eggs in ovaries and that too not good quality, I still have seen people conceiving a child with high FSH, especially if they are in their early 30's as you are.
Though you have gone through 2 IVF but it would still be worthwhile to try 1 or 2 ivf. Of course, having the inner strength to conceive naturally and believing on our body, soul and god is most important thing, but I would still say that don't waste lot of time as you know your problem and that it also requires medical assistance.
Initially even I was most reluctant about going for a DE or adoption but I guess we have tendency to change our mind as we start running out of options. Now I am leaning towards one of these options.
At the end, we all will get what god has decided for us.

Take care.
semi

 

Dear Semi,

My Hugs to you...

I really feel for you....Iam going to start the journey and already got a fair idea of everything and the experiences.Hope you get your desire fulfilled as early as possible.

My prayers for you!

 

your post brought tears to my eyes.. i am so sorry to read about the trials you are going through.. i firmly believe that God has a plan for all of us, and that everything will happen in His time.. keep your faith and don't stress yourself.. to have someone like you as a mother would be a child's blessing.. I hope everything works out for you.. and will check back for some great news soon! God bless!