Does Your Husband Help Carry Your Luggage?

My husband never helped me carry my luggage or my daughter. He will say help yourself ! Psst ya I have been through a lot. Struggles insults ! I feel depressed. I wonder sometimes how did I cross all the hurdles in my life all alone. Nobody can understand or feel for my situation and my life!

 

it made you more stronger

 

But has got to me to start hating him ! I lost all the trust! And I don’t want to do anything for him!

 

And probably I failed to understand his problems and never even thought of helping! PSST ya!

 

I am okay with driving on highways but not curves and heights. One place we went, the road was so narrow, I was getting tensed and literally praying that the curves end as soon as possible. A little wrong maneuvering and it would be all downhill. Also, I cannot drive at night due to vision problems, so he does a lot of the driving. Not to mention severe road sickness. I got to admit, in this regard he is damn good.

 

I could not understand #22. That's why no like or comment. I don't have to advertise my ignorance.

 

True @Rihana, but as women, sometimes we need to get rid of the junk and gunk in our heads. We can't watch any matches or down a bottle of liquor or smoke or even shout it all out or bully anyone else in frustration. At such times sobbing and letting it out keeps us from collapsing. At least some of us, if not all of us. I don't advocate this approach but saying that sometimes it helps, although it is not a good thing if done often.

 

I feel as long as husband can be trained you are good . It takes some time for wife to come up with manual . But it is doable . Little bit of patience goes a long way . Need to be little forgiving too . I think as I’m getting older I’m able to overlook lot more things . Pick your battles . Comparison will kill any relationship . I’m sure if some third party monitors me even they can provide many comments about my way of doing things . Maybe everyone in my household is used to my bad habits so we are comfortable with each other but it may bother someone else. I still remember the time my husband was sleeping in visitors room and I was trying to reach him after surgery . He came back after a nap and God knows what came out of my mouth that time . Time has taught me some valuable lessons . Better approach is to ask how can I make my husband understand my situation and help me . Create space for discussion and slowly get them on board .

 

So true