How To Accept The Reality Of Life? How Did You Deal With Some Heartbreaking Situation

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Yeah some disappointments can be really hard to make our peace with. When I was younger I'd be heartbroken, 'why me', pity myself a lot. Slowly I would forget but that prick would always be there - that thing I really wanted but couldn't get. But soon I started noticing something - those things - whatever I had failed to get, actually didnt suit me so well either. Like if it was a job in a particular hot or happening company that I really wanted, actually that company culture would be very different to my ideas and so on, later I would realize about that company from friends who worked there. Same for some other opportunity. I didn't realize all that was required and wouldn't have enjoyed it as much as I originally believed. Literally not getting those opportunities was best outcome for me!

Now I truly believe there is some force - destiny, call it what you will, that's watching out for me, that saves me from something that isn't really so good for me. Not just me, I have observed same in family members, my sons also.
I guess this is my roundabout way of saying 'When God closes a door, he opens a window'. Cheer up and look for the window.