Are You A Talkative Or A Quiet Person?

I observe people a lot before getting friendly with them. I can't be friends with everyone, I have my own limitations in gelling with people. Most of the people whom I have been friendly with turned out to be mere acquaintances they didn't bother to reply after I moved out of the place. Now I don't get connected emotionally at all with anyone. I am more at peace these days and found a new solace in Kindle. I still have a couple of friends from childhood whom I share anything and everything. But people change with time and making new friends after few years becomes a huge task.

 

I am quiet and can talk to only those I am close to. But I was not aware of how and when to talk in a joint family and did a lots of mistakes.

 

Hi
I was very talkative, now not much,I talk with very close group.Earlier my group was as big as universe , thereafter it became world country,then state,city now town hahaha.But I am happy,it is saving my energy.Now my communication is more in words.
Earlier I wrote snippet on slience,you can check at @RatnaMalliswari .
Following are quotes I wrote on slience.
Regards
Ratna

 

Dad said God has given me two years and one mouth so that I listen more and speak and eat less!
I remember to have read in TOI In link below the signs in zodiac who are tend to introverts or extroverts or a mix.

The 5 zodiac signs that are introverts and don’t mind social distancing | The Times of India
If one fails to speak the right word at right moment with right (or wrong) people, he may encounter disasters.

I used to talkative the moment I get fairly a sizeable audience but the moment I find some one bestowed with wisdom, I keep shut and open my ears. I learnt from my dad as to how much to reveal in speech and to choose words that doesn’t hurt the other and the third party!

Some would begin some sob stories to impel you to reveal parallel d
Anecdote in your life. Overcome temptation to tell your parallel incidents lest it could boomerang.

To conclude it is wisdom and pays rich dividend to be introvert at times but then it is equally true there are times you got to be an extrovert. There are places or situations where to remain silent is catastrophic. Silence can be mistaken for hidden wisdom is not true always.

 

words of wisdom, agree being an introvert has it's benefits, but some people including own family members do misunderstand that when you speak little, we are taken as someone who is not caring enough or emotional.